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　　据《重庆晚报》报道，近日，中国著名性学家、华中师范大学生命科学院教授彭晓辉在一次公开讲座中建议，现在大学生谈恋爱不稀奇，但校园里每个地方都可是公共场合，没有真正私密的空间独处。彭晓辉建议，公共恋爱场所可格成半封闭小单间，让学生情侣自带蜡烛、电脑、游戏来谈恋爱，既安全，又能方便学校监管。

According to[Chongqing evening news]reports,recently,Famous Chinese sexology home/Central China normal university professor of the college of life science PengXiaoHui after a public lecture Suggestions,Now college students fall in love not curious,But the campus every place but public occasion,Not really illicit close space to be alone.PengXiaoHui Suggestions,Public love place can case become semi-enclosed small room,Let the student couples take a candle/computer/Games to fall in love,To be both safe,And convenient school supervision.

　　此消息一经报道引起网友热议，有人赞同此举，认为这样做可避免在校园的公共场合影响到他人。而也有人表示反对，认为恋爱涉及个人隐私，不需要被“监管”，大学生都是成年人，可以对自己的行为负责。

This news is reported net friend caused by hot debate,Some agree with this,Think it can be avoided in the campus public affect others.And also some people object,That love is concerned with personal privacy,Don't need to be"supervision",College students are adults,Can to be accountable for their actions.

　　

网友PK Net friend PK

　　

赞成 In favor of

　　

设专用场所可保护恋爱学生安全 A special place to protect love students' safety

　　一些网友认为，在大学内设“恋爱专区”是应该的，这样做可以避免情侣间在公共场合过于亲密的行为影响到他人。@Donkey-D-帅东 说：“这样是应该的，本来公共空间就不应该做私人事情。”@黑礁石1 表示：“赞同大学为大学生开设半开放恋爱空间，这样既保护了恋爱大学生的人身安全，又利于学校的管理，一味地排斥就会把他们推向社会，不安全因素会大增。

Some netizens think,In the university has"Love zone"Is should,Such doing can avoid between lovers in public occasions too intimate behavior affect others.@ Donkey - D - ShuaiDong said:"This is as it should be,Originally public space should not do private things."@ black rock 1 said:"Agree with university students for the opening half open space in love,This protects both love college students' personal safety,And for the school management,Blindly rejection would bring them to the society,Unsafe factors will soar.

　　@维尼蒂亚裸钻 认为，在光天化日之下，做出过于亲密的事，实在令人羞面。能设安静的地方进行儿女情长是好事。@小名鼎鼎20112011 也说：“开设专用场所好啊，不干扰其他人工作学习。坐在自习室里，前边有情侣过于亲密，你说我还有心思看书吗？”

@ winnie's the naked drill think,In broad daylight,Make too intimate thing,It is ashamed face.Can a quiet place to be immersed in love is a good thing.@ childhood name famous 20112011 also said:"Set up special place well,Don't interfere with the work of others to learn.Sitting in the study room,The front have couple too close,You say I have mind reading?"

　　

反对 against

　　

谈恋爱怎能像上课一样固定地方 How can love like class as fixed place

　　但也有网友对此表示反对。@热莉莉说：“我不同意，学校就是学习的地方，要谈恋爱自己出去找地方去。”@行者无疆2069 表示，恋爱是件相对私密的事情，没必要设专用公共场所。@小破孩先生 说：“恋爱不是程式化的东西，自由才是最美的。”@小奈川 则调侃说：“谈恋爱还要学校监管，要不要先打个恋爱证啊？”@那抹微笑smile：“谈恋爱还要监管？我觉得应该注重这方面教育，比如普及一下性行为的保护措施？还有就是从道德方面多做教育，这种事情不是光压制就可以压制住的！”

But there are also net friend opposed.@ thermal lily said:"I don't agree with,The school is a place of study,To fall in love yourself out and find place to go."@ walkers boundless 2069 said,Love is a relatively private things,No need to set up special public places.Mr. XiaoPoHai @ said:"Love is not stylized things,Freedom is the most beautiful."@ small nye sichuan is light:"Fall in love and school supervision,Do you want to make a love card ah?"@ the smile smile:"Fall in love and supervision?I think we should pay attention to this respect education,Such as a universal sex protection measures?There is more to do from moral education,This kind of thing is not light pressing can be suppressed!"

　　@Alan-xu需要拿出勇气称，恋爱需要去不同的地方体验浪漫，爱情是两个人的事情，凭什么让你来监管？有爱人的地方就是恋爱的地方，怎么可能像上课一样固定在一个地方？

@ Alan - xu need to have the courage to say,Love needs to go to all the different places romantic experience,Love is two things,With what make you to supervision?A lover's place is love place,How can the class like as fixed in one place?

　　

专家观点 Expert view

　　

华南师范大学教授张敏强 South China normal university professor ZhangMin strong

　　

设“恋爱专区”是管得太宽了 set"Love zone"Is the pipe too wide

　　对此，著名心理学家、华南师范大学教授张敏强认为，在大学校园设立“恋爱专区”是管得太宽了，无必要。首先是不可行的，有哪个大学生会特意跑去某个地方谈恋爱呢？大学生都是成年人了，有自我负责的能力，恋爱是个人自由。

this,Famous psychologists/South China normal university professor ZhangMin strong think,Established in the university campus"Love zone"Is the pipe too wide,No necessary.The first is to be done,Which college students will have run go somewhere? Fall in love?College students are an adult,Have the ability of self is responsible for,Love is a man free.

　　同时，张敏强表示，在另一方面，恋爱是个人隐私，学校不应加以干涉，“恋爱是很私密的事情，有的人在心理上也不会想公开。如果谈恋爱去专门的场所，这样的变相公开也很难让人接受。”

At the same time,ZhangMin strong said,On the other hand,Love is a personal privacy,The school should not be interference,"Love is a very private things,Some people in the psychological also don't want to open.If fall in love to special places,Such disguised public also lets a person very hard to accept."

　　超级访问

Super visit

　　大学中设立“恋爱专区”，你赞成吗？记者昨日随机访问了一些市民。

The university set up"Love zone",Do you agree??Reporter yesterday random access some citizens.

　　

吴同学 (22岁，大四学生) Wu students (22 years old,Senior student)

　　

大学生是成年人，可以自我负责 College students are adults,Can self responsible for

　　“我认为这样做是不需要的。就我们学生而言，也希望能在恋爱时到外面走走，不想被束缚在一个空间里。我觉得如果学校这样做，是对大家安全负责任，但是我们都是成年人了，可以自我负责，保证自己的安全。”

"I think it is not needed.As we student,Also hope to be able to in the fall in love to the outside,Don't want to be bound in a space.I think if the school to do so,To everybody is responsible for safety,But we are all adults here,Can self responsible for,To ensure your safety."

　　

鲍老师(29岁，大学辅导员) Bao teacher(29 years old,University instructors)

　　

“恋爱专区”不能保证绝对安全 "Love zone"Can't guarantee absolutely safe

　　“这样做似乎难以实现，因为大学公共资源有限，很难拿出专门的地方供学生谈恋爱。再者，设立‘恋爱专区’实际上并不能和保护学生安全挂钩，因为靠场地监管的形式并不能绝对保证安全。大学生谈恋爱，应该从自身加强自律和防范意识，而不是通过被监管的形式来保护。”

"It seems difficult to realize,Because the university public resources are limited,It is difficult to take out special place for students to fall in love.moreover,Set up‘Love zone’Will not actually and protect students' safety hook,Because on site supervision form and we can't really assure safety.College students fall in love,From their own should strengthen self-discipline and awareness,Rather than by the form of supervision to protect."

　　

孙同学(21岁，大四学生) Sun students(21,Senior student)

　　

谈恋爱哪都行，跟场所无关 Fall in love which will do,Has nothing to do with places

　　“我觉得这种做法没有必要。不管是大学生还是其他人，谈恋爱到哪里都可以，跟场所没有关系。而且，设立‘恋爱专区’反倒会让人觉得怪怪的，我们大学生都是成年人了，难道拍拖还不能光明正大，需要去专门的场所吗？”

"I think it was not necessary.Whether college students or others,Where can fall in love,No relationship with place.and,Set up‘Love zone’But can let a person feel strange,We students are the adults,Don't dating is not above board,Need to go to a place?"

　　

游先生(28岁，IT从业人员) Mr Y.(28,IT professionals)

　　

一堆人聚集在一个地方恋爱很怪 A pile of people gathered in one place in love very strange

　　“虽然现在年轻人很开放，但是一堆人到一个地方集中谈恋爱会不会有点奇怪。

"Although now young man was very open,But a lot of people are to a local concentration will fall in love a little strange.

　　不过可以试试，没有实行过的东西都不好说是否可行，但是隔音效果一定要好才行，一堆人聚集在一起恋爱，估计会很吵吧。”

But can try,Did not execute the things is bad to say whether it is feasible,But the sound insulation effect is close friends certainly to just go,A lot of people are together in love,Estimates will be very noisy it."

　　

何先生(25岁，汽车从业人员) Mr. He(25 years old,Car employees)

　　

“恋爱专区”可避免影响他人 "Love zone"Can avoid influencing others

　　“大学情侣间行为如果只是单纯的拍拖谈心的话，我是非常赞成的，但是如果超出了正常的范围，那

"University couples room behavior if only simple dating speaking words,I am very favourable,But if beyond the normal range,the

　　就不合适了。有这样的地方，可以减少情侣们到一些比较偏僻的地方，容易发生危险。另一方面，拍拖肯定会说一些肉麻一点的话，在这样的空间里，可以避免其他人对他们的行为过分指点。”

It is improper for.Have such a place,Can reduce the lovers to some of the more remote places,Prone to dangerous.On the other hand,Dating will certainly say some disgusting little words,In this space,To avoid others for their behavior too much advice."

　　

记者眼 Reporter eye

　　

“被保护”更需“被尊重” "protected"Need more"respected"

　　20多年前，象牙塔里的大学生们“谈爱色变”，恋爱要悄悄地谈，在公开场所，男女之间的亲密交往更被视若“洪水猛兽”。如今，大学恋爱已不再是需“掩人耳目”的“地下工作”了，像吃饭、穿衣一样平常。大学内有关恋爱、婚姻、性的课程越来越丰富，“象牙塔”也变成了“小社会”。然而，在观念日益开放的今天，大学教育和管理却仍存在“家长式”管理观念。在大学设立“恋爱专区”，出发点是善意的，是为了保护学生的安全，但做法上，看起来更像是家长管理孩子。笔者认为，恋爱涉及个人隐私，而大学生在生理和心理上都已是成年人，除却“被保护”，更需要“被尊重”，这样的教育才能促进心理的“断奶”和成熟。

More than 20 years ago,In the ivory tower of the college students"Talk about love colour change",Love to talk quietly,In public,Close contacts between men and women more be apparent if"A great disaster".now,University in love is no longer need"Deceive the public"of"Underground work"the,Like to eat/Dressing same common.In the university about love/marriage/Sexual course is more and more abundant,"Ivory tower"Also becomes the"Small society".however,In the concept of opening day by day today,University education and management still exist"paternalism"Management concepts.In the university set up"Love zone",The starting point is good,In order to protect the safety of the students,But the practice,Look more like parents management children.The author thinks that,Love is concerned with personal privacy,And college students in the physiological, psychological, and is already an adult,trigger"protected",Need more"respected",Such education can promote psychological"weaning"And mature.

　　同时，此举也给大学校园中“开放”的年轻人提个醒，恋爱的自由也需有“度”，在享受美好青春的同时，应保护好自己，也不要干扰到公共场所中的其他人。

At the same time,This would also give university campus"open"46 young people,Love freedom also need to have"degree",Enjoy beautiful youth at the same time,Should protect yourself,Don't interfere with others in the public places.

　　郭苏莹

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