近日，有网友在一个网站的论坛上发帖称上小学六年级的儿子在路边购买避孕套，她想跟儿子讲明白这事却感到难以启齿，便向网友请求支招。

recently,Have net friend in a web site on the BBS post says elementary school sixth grade son on the roadside to buy condoms,She wanted to speak with son understand these things but feel hard to speak out,He wrote to request a court.

　　其实，如何与小学生谈性，对家长和学校来说都是一个问题。那么，小学阶段的性教育在广州的情况如何？该怎样正视性教育？为此，记者连日走访了市教育部门、一些学校和社区，让我们一起来听听老师、家长以及专家们是如何看待这个问题的。

In fact,How to talk about sex with primary school students,To parents and schools for all to be a problem.so,Primary school of sex education in guangzhou situation how?How to face sex education?therefore,Reporter day after day visited city education department/Some schools and community,Let's listen to the teacher/Parents and experts is how to treat this problem.

不知如何教子 家长网上求援 Do not know how to godson parents online for help

　　近日，有网友在广州一个网站论坛上发帖称，“昨晚儿子小声告诉我，他跟几个同学在学校附近的避孕箱用1元硬币买了个避孕套研究，他知道那东西是怎么用的，连用在什么地方都知道。我超级无语，他只是个小学6年级的学生啊。”随后，该网友在论坛上向网友们求援，求教自己应如何跟儿子讲明白这事。

recently,Have net friend in guangzhou a web site on the BBS Posting said,"Son last night in a low voice told me,He and several students in the school nearby contraceptive box 1 yuan coin bought a condom research,He knew that thing is how to use,Construe where all know.I say super,He is a the primary school is grade 6 students ah."then,The net friend in the BBS to net friends for help,His advice on how should speak with son understand these things.

　　无独有偶，一位多年从事小学教育的女老师也给记者讲了她类似的亲身经历。“外面不是很多地方都有避孕套售卖机吗？我儿子看到了，就觉得很好奇，就跑来问我，避孕套是干什么用的。一下子把我都问得很窘。”这位资深老师兼母亲说，自己不知道怎样解释最为恰当，但又不想讲得太清楚。

similarly,A primary school for many years engaged in the education of female teacher also to reporters about her similar experience."Outside is not many places have condom vending machine?My son saw,Feel very curious,I came to ask,What is the use of condoms.Suddenly I have asked very embarrassed."The senior teacher and mother said,I don't know how to explain the most appropriate,But don't want to speak too clear.

家长 parents

越早坦然面对效果越好 The earlier faced the better the results

　　记者就小学生性教育这一问题采访了多位家长，众人纷纷表示“越早坦然面对效果越好”。家住广州大道中某小区的陈女士分享了她的育儿经。她说，女儿凡凡今年读小学五年级，而她对女儿的性教育可以说是从一出生就开始。最初是教凡凡男女有别，再后来教她身体各器官的名称。因为害怕万一女儿受了伤害也无法精确表示，所以她一开始就是用科学的语言来描述，“没用小儿语或是代称”。

Reporters were primary school by nature education this problem quizzed parents,They have said"The earlier faced the better the results".Live in guangzhou avenue of a residential area ms. Chen share her parenting the.She said,Every daughter who read this year primary school grade five,And her daughter to the sex education can say from a birth began.First is to teach all men and women all different,Then taught her the name of body organs.For fear of one thousand daughter hurt cannot accurately said,So she began is to use the language of science to describe,"No children or language alfa".

　　“千万别忽悠孩子。”陈女士坦言，现在孩子们接触到性知识的途径越来越多，如果还是像以前那样遮遮掩掩，家长本身就戴着有色眼镜来看待这个问题，孩子只会从别的地方吸收性信息，这样对孩子的教育绝对没有好处。

"Don't cheat children."Ms. Chen said,Now that the children are exposed to sexual knowledge more ways,If still as before to cover up,Parents itself wear colored glasses to look at the issue,Children will only from other place absorbing information,This to children's education absolutely no good.

学校 The school

小学多设青春健康教育讲座 Primary school set up a youth health education lecture

　　记者了解到，广州市的小学基本都会设置生理卫生或青春健康教育的内容，但不是常设课程，而是多采用专题讲座的形式。

The reporter understands,Guangzhou primary school will set the basic physiological health or youth health education content,But not permanent course,But many in the form of the seminar.

　　培正小学的梁老师介绍，学校从五年级开始，就会在每个学期中安排校医做一次生理卫生知识讲座，教孩子认识自己的身体，特别是第二性征的发育。五年级下学期去学农时，又有一次男女生分开进行的青春健康教育讲座。

Peizheng primary school teacher beam is introduced,The school from five grade begins,At the end of each semester will be arranged in the school doctor make a physiological health knowledge lecture,Teach your child to recognize his own body,Especially the development of secondary sex characteristics.Five grade to the next semester when lives,And have a men and women living separately from the youth health education lecture.

　　越秀区广中路小学校长李晖延介绍，在四到六年级，每学期开展一次青春期教育，男女分班，由社区卫生院的医生来讲。李晖延认为，性教育是学校教育中不可或缺的内容，但讲什么、怎么讲确实需要仔细斟酌。讲浅了，孩子的疑问没有得到解答，难免好奇；讲深了，又怕孩子在这上面想得太多。

Yuexiu district of wide road primary school principals LiHuiYan is introduced,In four to six grade,Each semester launching an adolescent education,Men and women divide into classes,The community health center for the doctor.LiHuiYan think,Sex education is the school education of the contents of the essential,But speak what/How to speak really need to carefully consider.Speak shallow,The child's question didn't get solutions,Unavoidably curious;Speak deep,Again afraid children on it think too much.

专家 experts

家长也要学习相应的课程 Parents also want to learn the corresponding courses

　　据了解，目前广州一些小学性健康教育采取男女分开授课的形式，即男老师为男同学上课，女老师为女同学上课。对此，北大医学部医学心理教研室教授、性学专家胡佩诚表示，这种授课形式有利有弊：男女分开接受性健康教育，“孩子不容易尴尬”，使课堂教学更容易进行；但分开授课不利于男女相互了解和课堂互动。相较于在一起上课，这样会在一定程度上降低课堂教学的效果。

It is understood,At present guangzhou some primary school education to take separate sexual health of men and women in the form of teaching,Namely male teacher for male classmates in class,The female teacher for female students in class.this,Peking University faculty of medicine medical psychology professor teaching and research section/Sexology expert HuPeiCheng said,This kind of teaching form both advantages and disadvantages:Men and women separate accept sexual health education,"The child is not easy embarrassed",Make the classroom teaching much easier;But separate teaching men and women to mutual understanding and classroom interaction.Compared with in the same class,This will in a certain extent, reduce the effect of classroom teaching.

　　胡教授强调，在小学生的性健康教育问题上，家长和学校的责任同样重大，但家长的角色更为特殊。“家长是孩子的第一任老师。”

Professor hu emphasized,In the elementary student's sexual health education issues,Parents and the school's responsibility also significant,But the role of parents more special."Parents are the first teachers of the children."

　　胡教授坦言，内地家长常常回避或不正面回答孩子提出的和性相关的问题，在生活中缺乏对孩子进行正确引导和帮助的能力。因此，胡教授建议，目前有学校已经开设面向家长的课程，从中家长可以系统地学习如何在孩子成长过程中对孩子进行正确的性教育。文/记者张丹羊、黄茜、徐一斐 通讯员戴秀文

Professor hu said,Mainland parents often avoid or don't answer the child proposed and sex related problems,In the life of children lack of correct guidance and help ability.therefore,Professor hu suggested,There are schools have opened for parents course,From the parents can learn how to systematically in the growing process of children to children correct sex education.Wen/reporter zhang sheep/HuangQian/Xu a correspondent DaiXiuWen of caphtor