给教室送水、往教育局送文件，这是35岁校工付师傅“表面”的工作，而背后，他还坚守着更为重要的任务时刻坐在11岁儿子成成(化名)身边“监督”他学习。

Give the classroom water delivery/To send files education bureau,This is 35 years old school teacher pay"surface"work,Furthermore, the,He also stick to the more important task time sitting in 11 year old son into into(alias)side"supervision"He studies.

　　昨天，付师傅在儿子就读的小学已经“潜伏”工作了整俩月，每月收入1300元，而他之前是城东西北轻工批发市场一家大型电器批发店老板，年收入百万元。

yesterday,Pay teacher in son attended primary school has been"latent"Work the whole two months,Monthly income is 1300 yuan,And he is before chengdong northwest light industry wholesale market a large electrical appliances wholesale shopkeeper,Annual revenue is one million yuan.

　　

校车上咋少了一个娃原来他钻在车座底下 The school bus how little a Eva originally he drill in under the seat

　　11月13日下午5时，记者来到付师傅儿子就读的城南一小学，学校已经放学，校园只有他和儿子。

November 13 5 p.m,Reporters came to pay the master son in a primary school south,Schools have school,Campus only he and his son.

　　“孩子们都放学回家了，我得看着儿子把作业写得差不多才能回去，要不他回去更不好好写了。”在学校里的一间休息室，付师傅正辅导儿子写作业，他说这间休息室是学校领导考虑到他要照顾儿子，特意为他们安排的。说起在儿子学校当校工，付师傅一脸无奈。他说这一切都是为了儿子，而在当校工前，他已在另外一所小学全职陪读了整一年。

"The children all went home from school,I have to look at my son homework about to go back,Or he would go back to more not good wrote."In school a room,Pay teacher is coaching son write operation,He said that this room is the school leader considered his son to take care of,Specially for their arrangement.Speaking of the son when school school,Pay master a face of helpless.He said that everything is for a son,When before school,He has in another primary school full-time or relatives can apply for the whole year.

　　“从小就调皮、贪玩，光幼儿园两年就换了5所。”付师傅说，儿子5岁时曾在城东一家幼儿园就读，那时店里生意非常好，他和妻子顾不上孩子。有一天，他突然接到幼儿园老师的电话，说孩子不见了。

"Since the childhood mischievous/naughty,Light kindergarten two years in the 5."Pay teacher said,5 years old son was in the east a kindergarten attend,At that time the store business is very good,He and his wife to the children.One day,He suddenly received kindergarten teacher phone,Say children disappeared.

　　“幼儿园离我店很近，几分钟我就过去了。”付师傅说，孩子是下午放学回家时不见的，老师告诉他放学上车时确实是12个孩子，而到地方再一数成了11个了。“老师怎么数都少了一个。于是，校车又拉着所有孩子开回了幼儿园。”付师傅说，园长用花名册一核对发现，少的正是儿子成成。

"Kindergarten from my shop is very near,A few minutes I passed."Pay teacher said,The child is home from school in the afternoon when the missing,The teacher told him get on school when it is twelve children,And to place a number again became the 11."The teacher how to count are less one.so,The school bus took all children open back to the kindergarten."Pay teacher said,With the principal register a check found,It is less son into into.

　　“老师挨个去问孩子们有没有见成成，问到最后一个时，娃才说他在车座底下钻着呢。”付师傅苦笑着说，当时他把成成从车座下拉出来时，他却瞬时逃脱了，“边跑还边向园长做鬼脸说，你来追我呀。”

"The teacher round to ask the children have seen into into,When asked about the last one,Eva just said he in the saddle is under drill."Pay the teacher says with a wry smile,He was put into into the saddle drop-down came out,But he instantaneous escaped,"Ran also edge to the principal made faces said,You come to chase me."

　　昨日，记者向成成当时就读的幼儿园核实时，虽已过去多年，幼儿园李老师一下就想起了他。“还不止这些呢，当时他经常和其他孩子打架。”李老师说。

yesterday,Reporter to into into was in kindergarten when verification,Although already in the past years,Kindergarten teacher li once remembered his."Still more than these?,He was often with the other boys."Mr Li said.

　　付师傅说，后来他也问过儿子为啥要这么做，孩子只说“这样很好玩。”

Pay teacher said,Later he also asked a son is what want to do so,The child only said"It's fun."

　　

老师让他管笤帚簸箕没想到谁拿他就打谁 The teacher let him tube broom dustpan never thought who take he dozen who

　　付师傅说，幼儿园儿子就是这样“连滚带爬”过来的，想着以后上了小学，可能会变好，可后来发生的事远远超出了他的预料。

Pay teacher said,Such is the son of the kindergarten"Even rolling belt climb"over,After thinking about the elementary school,May get better,But what happened afterwards far beyond his expectation.

　　“第一所学校上了不到一个月。”付师傅说，儿子7岁时在城东一小学就读，没几天就出了问题。

"The first school in less than a month."Pay teacher said,Son at the age of 7 in east a elementary school,Not a few days is out of the question.

　　“上课不听讲，也不写作业，总在玩。”付师傅说，那时孩子有了问题，老师就把他叫到学校，他曾站在教室外连续观察孩子3天。

"School isn't listening,Also don't write operation,Always play."Pay teacher said,When children have the problem,The teacher is called him to the school,He had stood outside classroom continuous observation children 3 days.

　　“他把自动铅笔和圆珠笔卸成零件，再和尺子、橡皮拼成各种图案，有时老师正上课，他就从窗户跳出去，跑到操场玩。”付师傅说，后来老师让他管理教室后的笤帚和簸箕，没想到谁拿他就打谁。

"He put the automatic pencil and ball-point pen discharge into parts,Again with the ruler/Rubber is Mosaic all sorts of design,Sometimes teachers are in class,He jumped out from the window to,Ran to the playground."Pay teacher said,Later, the teacher let him classroom management after the broom and dustpan,Never thought who take he dozen who.

　　“班里同学都被他打了，老师说啥也不让上了。”付师傅说，随后他只好把儿子送到了临潼一家寄宿学校。

"In the class the classmate all beaten by him,The teacher said what also don't let on."Pay teacher said,Then he had to send their son to the lintong seismostation a boarding school.

　　“刚去第一天，他就和校长‘谈判’：你让我玩一个星期，我要好好参观一下学校，一个星期后我一定上课。”付师傅说，随后儿子就一周没上课。

"Just go to the first day,He and President‘negotiations’:You let me play a week,I want to visit the school,A week later I have class."Pay teacher said,Then son week no class.

　　“他在学校到处转，连校长的花园都踩了一遍，以前从没孩子敢去。”昨日，成成当时的班主任张老师说，成成思维清晰，口才也好，他曾在一次升旗仪式时，面对1600多名师生滔滔不绝讲了10多分钟。

"He's at school around,Even the principal garden all stepped on it again,Never dare to children."yesterday,Into into the teacher in charge teacher zhang said,Into ChengSiWei clear,Eloquence or,He was in a when a flag-hoisting ceremony,In the face of more than 1600 teachers and students blatter told more than 10 minutes.

　　“上了两年，最终还是因为打架又被学校送了回来。”付师傅说，随后他又给儿子找了两所学校，但都因同样的问题而被“退学”，渐渐地，儿子的学习问题成了他和妻子吵架的根源。

"On the two years,Finally because fight was sent back to school."Pay teacher said,He then gave son found two schools,But because of the same problems"Drop out of school",gradually,Son's learning problems become the source of he quarreled with his wife.

　　“那时生意忙没时间管娃，一生气上手就打，有时打得重了，孩子妈妈就不愿意了。”付师傅说，“有次吵架后，媳妇很认真地说，孩子再管不好，就跟我离婚。”付师傅说，这时他才真正认识到孩子教育的“重要性”。

"Then business busy no time tube Eva,An angry the overhand dozen,Sometimes played heavy,Mother did not want to the children."Pay teacher said,"Once after a quarrel,Daughter-in-law seriously said,The child then tube is bad,Just like I divorce."Pay teacher said,At this time he really realize the children education"importance".

　　

去年他放下生意每天陪儿子上学 Last year he put down the business son to school everyday

　　“第四次给孩子转学后，我就停下了店里的工作开始全身心陪他。”付师傅说，去年9月10日起他就把生意全部交给妻子打理，而他每天陪着儿子上学。

"The fourth to the child after transfer,I stopped the work began to devote to accompany him."Pay teacher said,On September 10, up his business to do all to his wife,And he accompanied my son to go to school every day.

　　“当时他在未央区一所小学读书，我还每月花了3000元请了一名特级教师辅导孩子。”付师傅说，怕影响老师，上课时他就站在教室楼道里时刻“监督”儿子，课间时他会根据儿子的表现和他沟通，但问题还是来了。

"He was not ended area a primary school reading,I have monthly spent 3000 yuan please a special-class teacher counseling children."Pay teacher said,Be afraid influence the teacher,In class he stood in the classroom in the corridor moment"supervision"son,During the break he will according to the son's performance and his communication,But the problem came.

　　“就因为一句口角，他拿起板凳砸向同学。”付师傅说，他眼睁睁看着事情发生，“也就十余秒，等我进去，同学头都被打破了。”

"Just because a quarrel,He took up the bench crashing to the students."Pay teacher said,He helplessly looking at things happen,"Is more than 10 seconds,Waiting for me in,Students head is broken."

　　付师傅说，他只好给儿子再次转学。今年9月，儿子转到了现在就读的小学，也是第五所学校。

Pay teacher said,He had to transfer to his son again.September this year,Son turn now attend primary school,Is the fifth school.

　　“就怕他出啥问题，他上课时，我天天站在门口等他下课或者等老师打电话。”付师傅说，他不敢离得远，这样老师一打电话他就能及时赶到教室。“站了10多天，学校领导就知道我陪读的事情了。”付师傅说，那段时间学校刚好缺校工，他便成了学校一名校工，每天负责给教室送水、给教育局送文件。空闲时，他就到教室“监督”儿子学习。

"He was afraid he out what problem,In class he,Every day I stood waiting for him at the door class teachers or make a phone call."Pay teacher said,He dare not far gone,So the teacher make a phone call, he can make it to the classroom."Stood more than 10 days,The school leader will know that I or relatives can apply for it."Pay teacher said,At that time the school just missing school,He became a school school,Responsible for every day to the classroom water delivery/To send files education bureau.Free time,He went to the classroom"supervision"Son learning.

　　“学校不仅安排了一间休息室，还允许我到教室和儿子一块听课。”付师傅说，两个多月来，儿子学习有了很大进步。

"Schools not only arranged for a room,Also allows me to the classroom and a son to attend a lecture."Pay teacher said,More than two months,Son study has made a great progress.

　　“作业还是不好好写，得有人看着。”13日，在和付师傅采访的两小时内，记者看到，成成仅写了两行，20个汉字。

"Homework or not good writing,Someone will have to look at."13,In and pay teacher interview two hours,The reporter sees,Into into only wrote two lines,20 Chinese characters.

　　昨日，成成的妈妈说，她还要照顾上小学一年级的女儿，而成成则全由丈夫“负责”。“生意我一个人打理，每月比过去少收入了近万元，但非常支持他全职陪读。”成成妈妈说，“以前总是忙生意，疏忽了孩子的管教，孩子学不好，挣再多的钱有啥用？”

yesterday,As a mother said,She had to take care of elementary school grade one daughter,And become into the whole by her husband"Responsible for"."Business I a person do,Monthly income of less than in the past nearly ten thousand yuan,But very support he or relatives can apply for full-time."Into into mother said,"Always busy business,Neglect the discipline of the children,Children learn bad,Make more use of the money?"

　　本报记者 周金柱

Our reporter ZhouJinZhu

　　

老师这么说…… The teacher say so……

　　昨日上午11时许，成成第四节课是数学课，闲下来的付师傅陪儿子上课。

Yesterday morning at about 11,Into into the fourth class was math,In their spare pay master class with son.

　　“他爸爸在时，他还挺老实，他要一个人，就会在那玩。”成成的数学老师赵老师说，班主任还在第一排为他开辟了“专人专座”。“他一个人坐，他爸爸常陪他上课。”赵老师说，成成已经上四年级，但刚入校时连汉字、拼音都不会，课堂上不听讲，也不写作业。

"When his father,He's very honest,He shall a man,Will play in the."As a mathematics teacher zhao teacher said,The teacher in charge is still in the first row of he opened up"Specialist special"."He is a man sat,His father often accompanied him in class."Zhao teacher said,Into into is grade four,But just the timing even Chinese characters/Phoneticize won't,Class not listening,Also don't write operation.

　　赵老师分析说，成成的个案主要还是没有养成学习和听课的习惯。“他潜意识中没有上课的概念，思维很活跃，但很容易跑偏。”赵老师说，现在有了家长的强行“介入”，孩子学习有很大进步，数学成绩从刚入校时的9分，到模拟考试时的42分。

Miss zhao analysis said,As a main case or no form the habit of learning and to attend a lecture."He didn't attend the lesson in the concept of the subconscious mind,Thinking is very active,But it's easy to lock."Zhao teacher said,Now have a parents' force"intervention",Children learn has made great progress,Math scores from just the timing of the nine points,The simulation test of 42 points.

　　“其实他很聪明。”赵老师说，她曾教过多名这样的孩子，问题的根源还是家庭教育不到位，以及过早把孩子送到寄宿学校。

"Actually he is very clever."Zhao teacher said,She had to teach too much name such children,The root of the problem or family education does not reach the designated position,And the early children to boarding schools.

　　“七八岁的孩子正处于安全感形成期，家是孩子最大的安全感来源。如果过早把孩子送到寄宿学校，孩子心理可能产生不信任感甚至叛逆。”西安舒雅心理咨询中心首席咨询师张芳说，有的家长忙于生意指望学校代替家长来教育孩子。“其实这是不对的，对于年纪小的孩子，家庭教育的作用往往更大于学校的教育。”张芳说。

"Age of seven children are in security formative years,Home is the child's largest source of security.If the early children to boarding schools,The child psychology may produce don't trust even rebellious."Xian shu ya psychological counseling center chief consultant ZhangFang said,Some parents are busy business hope school instead of parents to children education."In fact, this is wrong,For young children,Family education role more often than the school education."ZhangFang said.

　　

对话孩子父亲 Dialogue children father

　　记者：是什么让你决定放弃生意，“专职”陪读的？

reporter:What made you decide to give up business,"full-time"Or relatives can apply for the?

　　付师傅：为孩子的问题我和媳妇常吵架，她有次很认真地说，孩子要学不好，就和我离婚，这让我意识到孩子教育的重要性。

Pay master:The problem for the children and I often quarrel daughter-in-law,She once said with a serious look,Children to learn bad,He and I divorce,This let me realize the importance of children education.

　　记者：孩子小时候，你是否很少管过？

reporter:The child as a child,If you have few tube?

　　付师傅：几乎没管过，那时生意好，我和媳妇都疏忽了对孩子的管教，我甚至还带他去第四军医大学做过智商测验，也找过心理医生，医生说他智力很正常，而且也不是多动症。

Pay master:Had almost no pipe,When business,I and daughter-in-law are missing the discipline of the children,I even take him to the fourth military medical university do IQ test,Also look for a psychological doctor,The doctor said that his intelligence is normal,And is not the attention deficit disorder.

　　记者：你现在全职陪读，店里生意有没有受影响？

reporter:You now or relatives can apply for full-time,Business at the store have affected?

　　付师傅：肯定有影响啊，我做电器批发近20年了，很多顾客和厂家都只认我，我一走，每月少挣近万元。不过我现在明白，挣钱再多，孩子教育不好，也没用。

Pay master:There must be influence ah,I do electrical appliances wholesale nearly 20 years,A lot of customers and manufacturers are only know I,I a walk,Earn less a month nearly ten thousand yuan.But now I understand,Earn more than,The child education bad,Also useless.

　　记者：那你会这样陪儿子到啥时候？

reporter:That you would be so with his son to what time?

　　付师傅，最起码等小学毕业吧，希望小学这几年能培养他良好的学习习惯，以后上初中、高中就不用太费心了。

Pay master,At the very least, such as primary school,Hope primary school over the past few years to develop good study habits,Later top junior high school/High school have less trouble.

　　

孩子父亲的时间表 The child father's schedule

　　昨日，付师傅说，成成现在已经有了很大进步，但经常会有反复，而且写作业速度非常慢，同班同学1小时就能写完的作业，他要花费4小时到8小时，为此他一天的时间基本都是在陪儿子上课、写作业。

yesterday,Pay teacher said,Into into now has made great progress,But often there will be repeated,And write operation speed is very slow,Classmate 1 hours to finish the homework,He will spend four hours to eight hours,For this he one day time basic are in class with son/homework.

老师在课堂上表扬成成，他高兴地靠在爸爸身上 本组图片由本报记者 汤继颖 摄 In class the teacher praised into into,He was glad to rely on in my dad the picture by our reporter ShangJiYing perturbation 由于写作业慢，爸爸辅导成成 Due to the slow homework,Dad guidance into into

　　凌晨6时30分起床(做早餐)8时到学校(送水、送文件)8时~11时40分(陪儿子教室上课，“接待”同学“投诉”)中午12时~下午1时40分(吃饭、休息)下午2时~4时10分(陪儿子教室上课，“接待”同学“投诉”)下午5时~6时(吃晚饭)晚上6时~9时(陪儿子在学校写作业，可做大部分)晚上10时~12时(儿子剩余作业写完，睡觉) 凌晨零时~次日凌晨1时(父亲替儿子整理书包，洗漱、睡觉)

6 in the morning get up 30 points(Do breakfast)8 to school(Water delivery/Send files)8 ~ 11 when 40 points(With his son classroom,"reception"students"complaints")12 at noon when the afternoon 1 ~ 40 points(eat/rest)Afternoon 2 ~ 4 when 10 points(With his son classroom,"reception"students"complaints")Afternoon 5 ~ 6(dinner)At 6 PM ~ 9 when(With his son in the school homework,Can do most of the)10 at night when ~ 12(Son residual homework done,sleep) In the morning at 12:40am ~ 1(Father son for pack my school bag,Wash gargle/sleep)

　　

孩子成绩表 Children score

　　数学成绩：初次考试：9分，模拟考试时的42分、31分、62分

Math scores:First exam:Nine points,Simulation test of 42 points/31 points/62 points

　　语文成绩：初次考试：10多分，到现在30多分

Language result:First exam:10 points,To now 30 points