微博 @ naNedved：我每条微博您都看，看就看了还秒回，发大篇留言唠叨，140字不够，累不累啊？我觉得每天24小时被监控，特没安全感。老爸，高抬贵手吧！

Micro bo @ naNedved:I each micro bo you all see,See see still seconds back,Hair great article message nagging,140 words is not enough,Tired not tired ah?I think monitored 24 hours a day,Insecure,.dad,Gao tai2 gui4's hand.i it!

　　记者微访（李芳）：当微博变成父母的监控器，你无论写什么，评什么、转什么都不自在，怎么办？

Reporter micro visit(Li fang):When the micro bo become parents monitor,Whatever you write??????,Review what/Turn what all don't at home,do?

　　博主小威19岁，是江夏一高校大学生。小威昨天说，他是前两天发现爸爸关注他的。他发了一条庆祝社团某活动成功举办，准备出去通宵喝酒唱歌的微博。几秒后，就有网友回复：“大学生不能把心思总放在玩儿上……”巴拉巴拉140字不够用，连评了3条。5分钟后，老爸电话追来，委婉问他晚上有什么安排……他怀疑那个网友就是爸爸。难怪每次他随便发一条微博，此网友都第一时间回复。他果断将此人拉黑，又注册这个小号发牢骚。

Little willy blogger 19 years old,Is a jiangxia college students.Small wei said yesterday that the,He is two days before his father found attention.He made a celebrate community some activity held successfully,Ready to go out drinking, singing all night micro bo.A few seconds after,Have net friend reply:"College students can't always play in mind..."Bala bala 140 words not enough use,Even the three evaluation.Five minutes later,Dad call to chase,Euphemism asked him what's on the schedule for the evening...He suspected that the net friend is my father.No wonder every time he just send a micro bo,The net friend are the first time reply.He determined he would pull black,And register the trumpet whine.

　　记者昨天网联上被拉黑的网友，他承认是小威爸爸。“我只是想知道孩子动向，怕他学坏，这也叫监控？”对于被“拉黑”，爸爸不介意。“大不了换个马甲用悄悄关注功能，这样就不会被发现了。”威爸说。

Reporter yesterday on the WangLian is pulled black net friend,He admitted that is a small's dad."I just want to know the child trend,Afraid of him that which is evil,This is also called monitoring?"To be"Pull black",Dad doesn't mind."Big deal with change ma3 jia3 quietly pay attention to function,So that we won't be found."Neville dad said.

　　记者转达小威“我长大了，想有私人空间”的愿望。威爸半天没回话，最后说，他会找个时间和孩子好好沟通，争取和儿子光明正大地互粉。

Reporter give little power"I grew up,Want to have private space"wish.Neville dad along while have no answer,Finally said,He will find a time with their children a good communication,Strive for and son aboveboard mutual powder.

　　网友“hello苏点点”也遭遇了类似烦恼：“我妈把我同学、同事、领导都加关注了，还经常评论，这种大规模的“扫荡”，让我心力交瘁，不断发私信警告好朋友们注意措词，朋友都烦了，再不@我了。

Net friend"Hello Sue little"Also encountered similar trouble:"My mom had my classmate/colleagues/Leadership and the attention,Often comment,This kind of large-scale"mop-up",Let me be mentally and physically exhausted,Constantly send warning usually letters tell good friends pay attention to language,Friends are vexed,Don't @ me.

　　武汉大乘心理研究中心贾洪武老师认为，父母加孩子微博，无非是想与孩子拉近距离，但应注意方法，不能一味监管批评，应积极引导良性互动；若子女反感，应放手还孩子独立空间。子女也应该理解父母苦心，敞开心扉和父母聊聊，一味逃避指责只能加深矛盾。

Wuhan mahayana psychological research center JiaHongWu teacher think,Parents and children micro bo,It is to help close the distance with the child,But the method should be paid attention to,Can not blindly supervision criticism,Should actively guide benign interaction;If children dislike,Children should let go also independent space.Children should also understand parents elaborately,Open your heart and parents talk about,Blindly from criticism can deepen the contradiction.

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