华南师范大学教育科学院教授郑淮呼吁，如今的教育者应该更讲求有策略的教育方法，这一切都应建立在有效沟通、尊重孩子兴趣和意愿基础之上。

South China normal university education academy of sciences professor ZhengHuai called for,Today's educators should be more stress politic education method,All this should be in effective communication/Respect your child interest and intend to basis.

　　冯邵一是一个标准的全面发展的“优等生”：他在小学因为成绩优异连跳三级，年仅10岁已经读初中一年级，曾在多部影视作品中出演过角色。在他父亲眼里，冯邵一是一个“孝顺”、“节省”的孩子，儿子的理想是当一名昆虫学家或者飞机制造设计师。

Feng shao is a standard all-round development"Top student":He in elementary school because the result is outstanding even jump level 3,Only ten years old have read the junior middle school freshman class,Worked in some of the film and television works in the role.In his father's eyes,Feng shao is a"Filial piety"/"save"children,Son's dream is to be an entomologist or aircraft designers.

　　然而他写的《退学申请书》在微博上引发了2.4万余次的转发和评论，虽然只是一“闹剧”，但诸多教育专家也发表了自己的看法，呼吁教育改革刻不容缓。

However, he wrote[Drop out of the application]In micro blog caused more than 24000 times forward and comment,It is a"farce",But many education experts also voiced their opinions,Calls for education reform is urgently needed.

　　中国教育经济协会常务理事、广东民办教育研究中心主任张铁民教授认为，中国教育完全忽视了孩子们的需求，大量的作业和不断的排名钳制孩子的个体思想，扼杀孩子们在学业之外的梦想。

China's education economic association executive member of the council/Guangdong private education research center director professor think 3,China's education completely ignore the children's needs,A lot of homework and continuous ranking strangulation child's individual ideas,Kill the children in the school outside of the dream.

　　郑淮也赞同以上说法，他认为，事情发生的一方面原因是社会对小孩的期望没有顾及到孩子自身的期望和感受，这也说明如今的教育制度离真实生活越来越远。“现在社会的开放程度越来越高，青少年和儿童接受教育的方式也发生了很大变化，他们表达意见的愿望也会变得更加强烈。”

ZhengHuai also agree with above statement,He thinks,Things happen on the one hand cause is social children expect no consideration of the child's own expectations and feelings,This means that today's education system is more and more far away from real life."Now society is becoming more and more open,Teenagers and children receive education way also has changed greatly,They desire to express opinions will be more intense."

　　“每一个小孩的发展都不一样，学习仅仅是一个方面，个性和社会性的发展在孩子的成长中占有更重要的地位，但是我们现在的教育鲜有顾及。”郑淮建议，教育者应当意识到要用新的表达渠道尝试和青少年沟通，学校和家长一方面要适当给孩子减轻课业负担，给孩子的自由发展留下一定的空间，重视不同孩子身上不同的发展轨迹；另一方面，他认为这样案例的出现也恰恰表示如今的教育制度已经亟待改革。(完)

"Every child's development is not the same,Learning is just one aspect,Personality and social development in the child's growth plays more important role,But we now education rarely take into consideration."ZhengHuai Suggestions,Educators should realize that want to use the new express channel try and teenagers communication,Schools and parents on one hand should be appropriate to reduce the burden of their children,For the free development of children leave some space,Pay attention to different children different development track;On the other hand,He said that the case has also just said today's education system has to reform.(finish)