本报讯“一直帮儿子挂QQ，还帮他农场偷菜，可是最近儿子当着我的面改了QQ密码。”家长“蛐蛐儿”日前在武汉一家长论坛发帖称，儿子收回了她帮孩子挂QQ的权力，还怪她侵犯了他们的隐私权。帖子引来3000多网友点击，上百人回复，纷纷讨论该不该帮孩子挂QQ，父母该如何保护孩子的隐私？

Report from our correspondent"Always help son hung QQ,Also helped his farm to steal food,But the son in front of my face changed QQ passwords."parents"cricket"In wuhan has a parent BBS post said,Son back her help children hang QQ power,Also blame her invasion of their privacy.Post draws more than 3000 users click,Hundreds of people to reply,Have discussed this shouldn't help children hang QQ,Parents how to protect the privacy of children?

家长发帖 Parents post

“孩子怪我侵犯他们隐私” "Children blame me infringement of their privacy"

　　“自从儿子有QQ以来，我一直帮儿子挂QQ，一直听从儿子安排，帮儿子整理QQ后花园，包括农场偷菜、同学生日发送礼物等，但前几日儿子回家，气冲冲地当着我的面改了QQ密码。”家长“蛐蛐儿”日前在武汉一家长论坛发帖说。

"Since the son has since QQ,I have been to help son hung QQ,Always listen to son arrangement,Help son finish QQ garden,Including the farm to steal food/Students send birthday gift, etc,But several days ago son home,Storming in front of my face changed QQ passwords."parents"cricket"In wuhan has a parent BBS post said.

　　“蛐蛐儿”说以前很高兴帮儿子挂QQ，说明自己深受孩子信任，此外还把孩子从QQ琐事中解脱出来，保证了孩子不受不良信息影响。

"cricket"Glad to help son said before hanging QQ,That their children by trust,In addition to the child from QQ trivial freed,To ensure the child from bad information influence.

　　“蛐蛐儿”说儿子之所以改密码，是因为她用儿子QQ告诉别的孩子考试的事，没料到对方也是家长代挂，“本来别的家长都不知道，我同学怪你暴露了他们考试的事，侵犯了隐私。”儿子对“蛐蛐儿”说。

"cricket"The son said change password,Because her son QQ tell other children of the exam,Didn't think the other is parents generation hang,"Have other parents don't know,My classmate blame you away their exams,Violated the privacy."Son to"cricket"said.

　　“蛐蛐儿”还诉苦：这些孩子呀不给爹娘知情权，倒强调起隐私权。帖子一发就有3000多人点击，上百人回帖。许多家长说自己遇到了类似的事，一些家长也表示自己很为难。

"cricket"Also complaint:These children ah do not give parents right to know,But the emphasis on privacy.Post service has more than 3000 people click,Hundreds of people return card.Many parents say they met similar things,Some parents also said he is very difficult.

记者调查 Journalists to investigate

小学中高年级超八成孩子有QQ In the primary school children have QQ over eighty percent

　　武汉小学中高年级的学生几乎都用QQ。记者昨日采访了华师附小、街道口小学、武昌积玉桥学校、江汉前进二路小学四所学校200名中高年级学生，发现165个孩子经常使用QQ，比例超过八成，1-2年级学生用QQ比例也近四成。调查还显示，各学校存在差异，一些农民工子女多的学校孩子用QQ较少。

Wuhan primary school students in senior almost all use QQ.Reporter yesterday interview no.1 primary school/Mouth street primary school/Wuchang product jade bridge school/Jianghan forward acoustic elementary school four school 200 middle and high school student,Found that 165 children often use QQ,Ratio of more than eighty percent,1-2 grade students use QQ proportion also nearly forty percent.The survey also showed,Each school is different,Some migrant children many school children use QQ less.

　　记者还调查了100位家长，65%的家长帮孩子挂QQ。积玉桥学校4年级家长张先生说：“孩子QQ号都是我帮忙申请的，一直帮他挂着。”约有五成家长担心孩子自己挂QQ会耽误时间，特别是怕受不良信息影响，“网上有骗子以及一些坏人，毕竟小学生还小，甄别能力有限。”家长李女士说。

Reporters also investigated 100 parents,65% of the parents to help children hang QQ.Product jade bridge school 4 grade parents Mr. Zhang said:"Children QQ number is I help you apply for,Has been to help him hang."About fifty percent of parents worry that their children will lose time he hung QQ,Especially afraid of be bad information influence,"Online fraud and some bad,After all pupils still small,Discrimination ability is limited."Parents ms. Li said.

争议 dispute

父母该如何保护 Parents how to protect

孩子的隐私？ The child's privacy?

　　大多家长认为只有知道孩子的一切，才能更好教育孩子。武汉前进二路小学曾偲偲老师认为应该给孩子隐私权，她说：“这就如同孩子的日记本，开始记录的是一些琐碎的事，慢慢地会有一些新想法，也会希望有自己独立的空间。”

Most of the parents think that only know all about her children,To better education child.Wuhan forward two primary schools has Cai Cai teacher think should give children privacy,She said:"This is like the child's diary,Start recording is some trivial things,Slowly will have some new ideas,Also wish to have their own independent space."

　　心理专家尹邓安则说，父母应该与孩子沟通并充分尊重孩子，有时候给孩子一个私密空间更好。“千万别强行掌握孩子的QQ号，这样会产生逆反心理，孩子可能干脆偷偷换一个QQ，更让父母无法掌握。”

Psychological experts DengAn Yin is said,Parents should communication with your children and fully respect children,Sometimes give the child a illicit close space better."Don't force of the child's QQ number,This will produce negative mentality,The child may simply secretly in a QQ,More let parents can't grasp."