童话曾经是一代又一代人童年的珍贵记忆，安徒生童话里的丑小鸭和小美人鱼，格林童话里的灰姑娘和青蛙王子，郑渊洁童话里的舒克和贝塔，这都是很多人童年记忆里的鲜活影像，温暖陪伴着他们的成长时光。在某网络公司上班的80后青年梁先生，至今还记得小时候非常着迷郑渊洁童话故事，小老鼠舒克和贝塔乐观向上、永不放弃的精神，对他影响很大。

Fairy tale was generation after generation of precious childhood memory,Andersen fairy tales of the ugly duckling and the little mermaid,Grimm's fairy tales of Cinderella and the prince frog,ZhengYuanJie in fairy tale shunk and beta,This is a lot of people in the childhood memories fresh image,Warm with their growth time.In a network company work after 80 youth beam Sir,Still remember when I was a child was fascinated by ZhengYuanJie fairy tales,The little mouse shunk and beta optimistic upward/Never give up,The influence.

　　“童话已经落伍时代了！现实社会中，童话只是美丽的泡沫，我要从小让孩子接触到真实的东西，即使是假丑恶，也要提前让她有免疫力！”这位鄙视白雪公主不会宫斗的小学女生，其父一语道出育女关窍。

"Fairy tales have fall behind The Times!Realistic society,The fairy tale is just a beautiful bubble,I want to let the children from contact with the real thing,Even enemies we make,Also want to advance let her have immunity!"The despise the Snow White princess won't GongDou primary school girls,His father one expresses child.what shut the bladder.

　　“家里被弄得很脏了，但是不做清洁，而是开始习于肮脏甚至创造肮脏，这位父亲的逻辑是不对的。道德滑坡，价值失范，社会教育去人文化越来越严重，这是事实，但是如果我们轻言放弃，让孩子从人生伊始就绝缘美好，我觉得这是家长的堕落和失职。” 近日刚刚出版新书《汤圆王子童话集》的作者南诏，直言不讳对“假丑恶”早教的坚决否定：“知识和能力教育都是其次的，我觉得从小的情怀和信念教育才是最关键的，如果孩子没有学会真心欣赏并认真体验这个世界，考试多厉害又有什么用？最后都会像钱理群教授说的那样，成为精致的利己主义者，高智商、世俗、老到，善于表演，懂得配合，更善于利用体制来达到自己的目的，这种人一旦掌握权力比一般的贪官污吏危害更大！我不想自己的孩子变成这样的人！”

"Home is very dirty,But do not clean,But a beginning used dirty even create dirty,The father's logic is wrong.Moral landslide,Value anomie,Social education to culture more and more serious,This is a fact,But if we give up,Let the child from the beginning of life good insulation,I think it is the parents fall and dereliction of duty." Just recently published book[Dumplings, prince]Author nanzhao,Call a spade a spade on"Enemies we make"The early firmly negative:"Knowledge and ability education are next,I think from the feelings and belief education is the key,If a child does not learn to truly appreciate and serious experience the world,Test well and have what use?The professor said QianLiQun will like it,Become the exquisite egoist,High intelligence quotient (IQ)/secular/old,Good performance,Know how to cooperate with,The more good at using the system to reach own purpose,This kind of person once power than the general corrupt officials more harmful!I don't want their children become such people!"

　　中韩日儿童童话交流活动是日本倡议发起的一项很有意义的国际交流项目，去年8月首次在中国举行。采访活动的记者发现，中国孩子“赢了智力输了教养”，虽然在智力和创造能力方面不逊于日韩，外语、乐器都是当仁不让的强项，但令活动主办方负责人陈田老师感慨的是，中国孩子在文明礼貌、待人接物方面往往处于下风，相比较，日韩的女孩更像“女孩”，小淑女气质十足。其实，在中国家长的教育思潮中，这些比较差异可谓“种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆”。

South Korea in the children's fairy tale activities is Japan initiative launched a very meaningful international communication project,August last year for the first time held in China.Interview activity reporter discovery,Chinese children"Won the intelligence lost upbringing",Although in intelligence and creativity are not inferior to Japan and South Korea,Foreign language/Musical Instruments are not strengths,But to the organizer ChenTian head teacher is feeling,Chinese children in civilized manners/People often disadvantage,compared,The girl is more like Japan and South Korea"The girl",A small fair maiden temperament.In fact,In the Chinese parents' education in the trend,This comparison is difference"As a,reap".

　　调查显示，国内七成以上的家长认为早教就是提前学习汉字、英语和数学，北京师范大学认知发展研究室主任沃建中认为这是“可怕的误区”，而“关注智商和情商的和谐发展才是早教的要义。”北京教育科学院早期教育研究所研究员廖丽英指出“知识、技能水平高的人不一定文化素养就高。”俞敏洪总结自己的家长心得时，则认为家庭教育中有几个重要因素必须重视，第一个就是对孩子的情绪培养，包括孩子欣赏自然的能力、对人文精神的体会和思辨的能力，第二个是做人方面的基本规范，还有爱的能力。从小喜欢童话的南诏认为，这些因素其实在童话阅读中都可以解决，童话阅读就是很好的情商培育手段，能潜移默化地培养孩子的善感情怀，优美有趣的想象能增加孩子的美感和善感，这样才会善待自己和世界，相信美好，心存希望。

Investigation shows that,Domestic more than seventy percent of the parents think ahead of development is to learn the Chinese characters/English and mathematics,Beijing normal university cognitive development research director WoJianZhong think it is"Terrible error",and"Pay attention to the harmonious development of the IQ and eq is the essence of development."Beijing early education academy of sciences researcher at the institute of education LiaoLiYing pointed out"knowledge/High skill levels of people don't necessarily cultural quality is high."Mr Yu summarize their parents when experience,Is that the family education in several important factors must be pay attention to,The first is to the child's emotional cultivation,Including children appreciate the natural ability/To the humanities spirit experience and thinking ability,The second is how the basic norms,And the capacity to love.Like the fairy tale from the nanzhao think,These factors as it is in the fairy tale reading can solve,Fairy tale reading is a very good eq cultivation methods,Can subtly develop the child's sentimental feelings,Beautiful interesting imagination can increase the child's aesthetic feeling and sentimental,This will be good to yourself and the world,Believe that good,hope.

　　儿童教育专家指出，一切教育要从根本做起，如果丢弃了根本的、人性的真善美等德行教育，其余则是缘木求鱼，而童话阅读最珍贵的，就是真善美和信念元素的沁人心脾。喜欢童话阅读的孩子，比不读童话的孩子要情感丰富，也更有勇气。其实，梦一样的童话蕴藏着人类的智慧、美德、社会习俗，同样在演绎现实社会中的一切，演绎善与恶的尖锐对立，但是童话有一个特点，就是对善良信念的坚持，这对孩子们至关重要。

Children's education experts say,All education should start from the root,If rejected fundamental/The human nature beauty and virtue education,The rest is asking for the impossible,And the fairy tale reading the most precious,Is true and faith element refreshing.Like the fairy tale reading children,Don't read the fairy tale than children to emotional,Also have the courage.In fact,A dream of fairy tales contain human wisdom/virtue/Social customs,Also in deductive reality all the society,Deduction of good and evil sharp opposition,But the fairy tale with a feature,Good faith is to hold,It is very important for the children.

　　据悉，《汤圆王子童话集》目前正走俏新年图书市场，网友纷纷评论这是“送给孩子和有梦成年人的2013年的最温暖礼物。” 网友“双面湖水”说：“读完《汤圆王子童话集》，感到了一种温暖的正能量，心里逐渐舒缓下来，这种感觉已经很久没有了。” 网友秋千则说看书时想起了法国作家圣?埃克苏佩里的传世童话《小王子》，她说：“多么庆幸，童话的世界里不再只有外国的王子，中国也有了属于自己的小王子。” （中新网生活频道）

It is reported,[Dumplings, prince]Is currently popular New Year book market,Users have commented that it is"To children and adults in 2013 dream of the most warm gift." Net friend"Double lake"said:"read[Dumplings, prince],Feel a kind of warm positive energy,Heart gradually slow down,This feeling has a long time have no." Net friend swing is said when reading of the French writer SAN?Eaker Sue perry handed down from ancient times of the fairy tale[The little prince],She said:"How glad,The world of fairy tale no longer only foreign prince,China also have their own little prince." (A life channel)