该给谁红包？红包里要包多少钱？收了人家的红包怎么还？每到春节，对一部分人群来讲，上述问题成为压在心头的“三座大山”。“我去年春节后一共买了5扎共50个红包，到现在只剩下4个了。”昨日，家住武昌工程营社区的白领陈小姐向记者感叹，过去一年用掉了46个红包，想来有些恐怖。

Who will get the red envelopes?How much money in the red packets to package?Accept the somebody else's red envelopes?Every Spring Festival,Will tell to portion of the population,The above problems become pressure in the heart"Three big mountains"."After the Spring Festival last year, I bought a total of 5 bundle were fifty red packets,Until now the only four."yesterday,Live in wuchang engineering battalion community white-collar miss Chen told reporters plaint,In the past year with off and a red envelope,Like some terrorist.

不想非主流 Don't want to alternative

就得上红包 Is the red envelope

　　陈小姐今年29岁，未婚，在武汉一大型国企工作，年收入约10万元。因为学历高、工作好，她让父母感到很有面子，而且亲戚中的诸位长辈，也十分疼爱她。

Miss Chen really painted the town red this year 29 years old,unmarried,A large state-owned enterprises work in wuhan,Income of about 100000 yuan.Because of the high degree/Work well,She let parents feel very face,And the men of the elder relatives,Also very love her.

　　不过，得到人家的疼爱是要付出代价的。陈小姐说，46个红包中，除了其中20个是同事、朋友结婚、生孩子随礼使用，其他都用到亲戚长辈身上。

but,Get the somebody else's love is to pay the price.Miss Chen said,46 a red envelope in,In addition to the twenty are colleagues/Friend's wedding/Children with ritual use,Other relatives were used on the elders.

　　她说，外公外婆、爷爷奶奶，中秋、过年要送红包，每人每次给500元。再就是伯伯、叔叔的孙子、舅舅的孙子、表姐的孩子，亲戚中的下一辈有15个左右，来拜年的时候都要给红包。

She said,Grandpa and grandma/Grandpa's grandmother,Mid-Autumn festival/New Year's day to give a red envelope,Each person to 500 yuan.Or uncle/Uncle's son/Uncle's son/Cousin children,Relatives of the next generation has 15 or so,When to pay New Year call to give red packets.

　　此外，陈小姐今年要和相恋多年的男友结婚。春节后她还要到男友家的部分亲戚家拜年。她说，男友家在农村，亲戚也很多，拜年不给小孩红包是大忌，总共消耗掉她上十个红包。

In addition,Miss Chen really painted the town red this year and long-term boyfriend get married.After the Spring Festival, her boyfriend want to go home part of the relatives pay New Year call.She said,Her boyfriend house in the countryside,Relatives also many,Pay New Year call don't give the children red envelope is big fear,A total of consume her ten red packets.

　　“我虽然收入不是太低，但现在红包包多了，负担也很重。”陈小姐说，因为未婚没有小孩，自己包出去的红包属于“有去无回”，有时想想挺吃亏的。她告诉记者，确实想过拜年不给红包，但觉得过于“非主流”，亲戚肯定会在后面指指点点，让父母和男友不好做人。

"Although I income is not too low,But now the red envelope bag,Burden is heavy."Miss Chen said,Because single no child,His bag out red packets to belong to"Not get it back",Sometimes think pretty hard.She told reporters,Really wanted to pay New Year call don't give red packets,But think too"non-mainstream",Relatives will behind pointing fingers,Let parents and boyfriend bad person.

带着红包和现金 With a red envelope and cash

随时包上 Bag at any time on

　　春节拜年，不少家庭都会选定初几的某一天做东，邀请所有亲戚来聚会。各类平时走动不多的亲戚，因此能聚首一处。

Happy New Year Spring Festival,Many families will be selected a few early one day to reciprocate,Invite all relatives come.All kinds of usual about little relatives,So can a place together.

　　在广州经商的廖女士，前日被堂弟邀请去他家聚会。今年32岁的廖女士，生意做得大，身家上千万，是众多亲友心目中的女强人和女能人。

In guangzhou business manifold lady,The day before yesterday was my cousin invited to his party.This year, 32, ms liao,Business big,Millions of assets,Many relatives and friends are the eyes of a strong woman and mistress.

　　女强人出手要大方，才符合亲友们的预期。不过，因为不知道聚会当天到底有多少人来，有多少小孩参加，廖女士只好带了两扎20个红包、现金1万元随机行事。

A strong woman make moves to generous,According to friends and family expectations.but,Because you do not know how many people on the party to,How many children attend,Liao lady had to have two firm and a red envelope/Cash 10000 yuan play it by ear.

　　廖女士告诉记者，聚会当天，有不少远房亲戚的孙子甚至外孙参加。只要看到她，大人们就会领着孩子过来给她拜年。

Liao lady told reporters,Party the day,There are many distant relative grandson even sons attend.As long as I see her,People will get the child to give her happy New Year.

　　“姑姑新年好。”听到类似祝福，廖女士就会条件反射地拉开包，根据晚辈的亲疏远近，装入不同金额现金送出去。

"Aunt happy New Year."Heard similar blessing,Liao lady will conditioning to open package,According to the junior or far and near,In different amount cash away.

　　廖女士说，最后点钱，发现1万元现金只剩下2300元。

Ms liao said,Finally some money,Found that 10000 yuan in cash only 2300 yuan.

红包文化走样 Red packets culture out of shape

滋生家庭矛盾 Breeding family conflicts

　　“东家给多了，西家给少了，你的亲戚多，他的亲戚给少了。”因为红包厚薄不一，让本该祥和的家庭，凭空滋生出一些矛盾。

"Club to much,Hezekiah to less,Your relatives more,His relatives to less."Because different thickness red envelopes,Let should have peaceful family,Just cause out some contradictions.

　　在新浪微博、本地得意生活论坛，众多网友发帖，述说自己因红包而坏了心情、甚至怄气的事情。

In sina micro bo/The local's life BBS,Many users to post,Tell yourself for a red envelope and bad mood/Even things ou spirit.

　　网友“冰魅微蓝”说，自己因为只给了200元的红包，被人冷脸相待；而另一位名为“不小心”的网友，则为多年承蒙自己父亲照顾的叔叔，只给自己100元的红包，而大动肝火。

Net friend"Ice charm micro blue"said,His because only gave 200 yuan red envelopes,Being cold face one another;And another name"Don't be"Net friend of,It is years due to his father to take care of the uncle,Give myself only 100 yuan red envelopes,Is up in arms about the.

　　票子决定面子。本来准备给每个外甥1000元红包的市民张先生，因为老婆的反对，红包金额被腰斩，每个只包500元。对此，张先生感到很不高兴，觉得老婆让自己在亲戚面前没了面子，显得很吝啬。

Ticket decided to face.Was going to give each nephew 1000 yuan red packets citizens Mr. Zhang,Because his wife's opposition,A red envelope amount is ks,Each bag is 500 yuan.this,Mr. Zhang was very unhappy,Think wife let yourself in front of relatives didn't face,Appears very stingy.

　　而市民卢女士也感到纠结，自家3岁的孩子爱赶路，走亲访友都要跟着去，因此收了很多亲戚的红包。收一个红包就是欠一份人情，以后怎么还人情，让自己感到头大。

And citizens Lou lady also feel ravel,Their three children on love,Visits will follow to,So many relatives received red envelopes.Receive a red envelope is under an obligation,How is after human,Let yourself feel head big.

老外 foreigners

红包水平么样 A red envelope level yao sample

　　日本

Japan

　　调查显示，2013年新年，日本人平均计划支出压岁钱为26143日元(1737元)，由于日本国内经济持续不景气，这个数字已经是近年来最低。

Investigation shows that,In 2013, the New Year,The Japanese average was planning to spend New Year's money for 26143 yen(1737 yuan),Because the Japanese domestic economy remains sluggish,This number is the lowest in recent years.

　　韩国

South Korea

　　韩联社一项调查发现，韩国国民认为，给小学生的压岁钱，有55%的职员回答1万韩元(57元人民币)最合适。

Korea - a survey,South Korea national think,To the elementary student's New Year's money,55% of the staff to answer 10000 won(57 yuan)The most suitable.

　　越南

Vietnam

　　越南人给孩子的压岁钱都不多，一般给个500或1000越南盾(1元人民币约合3338越南盾)，但这几年已增长到5000到10万越南盾（30元人民币左右）不等。（记者 罗京）

Vietnamese to child's New Year's money very much,Generally give a 500 or 1000 VND(1 yuan RMB $3338 VND),But over the past few years has risen to 5000 to 100000 VND(Thirty yuan or so)inequality.(Reporter LuoJing)