中国有大约5800多万留守儿童，他们留守又流泪。要承担起主要责任的应该是他们的父母，因为把希望寄托在政府、义工，甚至是各方面面鼎力相助上都是不现实的。父母首当其冲要负起责任，没有人能够代替这些父母对孩子的关切与教育。留守儿童中心理障碍不健康达50%，这样的孩子真的有可能一生不幸福。父母离乡背井，到远方去的目的是什么？他们一定会回答，为了让我们的孩子更幸福、让我们日子过的比现在要好。中国改革开放几十年，我们物质条件真的比过去有了很大的进步，是否更多的财富、更多的钱就能带来更多的幸福，这种谬论不仅在城市弥漫，也在乡村弥漫，但这是错误的。

China has about 5800 left-behind children,They stay and tears.To undertake the main responsibility should be to their parents,Because his hope in the government/volunteers,Even all aspects put your shoulder to the wheel is not realistic.Parents should bear the brunt of responsibility,No one could take the place of the parents to the child's concern and education.Left-behind children unhealthy psychological obstacles up to 50%,Such children really have a lifetime not happiness.Parents leave their homes,To what is the purpose of far away?They will answer,In order to let our children more happiness/Let our life is better than it is now.China's reform and opening up to several decades,Our physical condition than in the past really has made great progress,Whether more wealth/More money can bring more happiness,This fallacy is not only in the city diffuse,Also in the country diffuse,But this is wrong.

　　一个人一生的剧本在六岁以前已经全部写完。孩子的父母要负起责任，如果只管生不管养，你无权把生命带到这个社会上，你带来就负有世界第一等责任，不是金钱可以弥补。孩子身体成长开始学习怎么面对世界、怎么处理人与人关系、怎么确定一生理想，这是任何人不可以取代父母的责任。

A man's life script in six years ago already all finished.The child's parents will take personal responsibility,If only life whether to raise,You had no right to give life to the society,You will have to bring the world first chop responsibility,Is not money can make up for.The child's physical growth began to learn how to face the world/How to deal with the relationship between people/How to determine the life ideal,This is anyone can't replace the responsibility of parents.

　　彻底解决五千多万，甚至更多的留守儿童的问题，不是局部措施能够解决的，我希望能够把整个中国变成大的花园、让城乡的差别越来越缩小，那么多孩子和那么多农村居民们，也能够享受更好的生活，这才是破解留守儿童留守流泪根本的措施。

Completely solve more than five thousand,Even more left-behind children problem,Not local measures can be solved,I want to convert the whole of China into a big garden/Let the difference between urban and rural areas is more and more narrow,So many children and so many rural residents,Can also enjoy a better life,This is the crack left-behind children left-behind tears fundamental measures.

　　我甚至在想可不可以发出这样的建议，当父母太小的时候，父母不要为了挣钱双双离开，给自己理由说让孩子过了更好的生活，恰恰相反，这种做法就扼杀孩子快乐的童年和一生的幸福生活。

I even want to can make such advice,When the parents are too small,Parents not to earn money both left,Give yourself reason why let the child after a better life,On the contrary,This practice will kill children happy childhood and life happiness life.

——国家一级作家，心理医生  毕淑敏 

, the national level writer,Psychological doctor  BiShuMin