(记者 张瑜琨 通讯员 黄清峰 韩天伟)中学时不让早恋，大学却被父母催促找对象。近日，汉口学院的一项调查显示，六成在校大学生“被相亲”。

(Reporter Zhang Yukun correspondent Huang Qingfeng Han Tianwei)In high school don't let to early love,University has been urged parents to find objects.In recent days,According to a survey of hankou college,Sixty percent of college students"Have been dating".

　　汉口学院的艺术设计学院大三女生李畅(化名)的父母，催促她明年带对象回家，弄得李畅哭笑不得。

Three girls Li Chang hankou college of art and design college(Not his real name)The parents of,Urged her to get objects home next year,Li Chang in distress situation.

　　日前，汉口学院大学生记者团在湖北工业大学、武汉工程大学、汉口学院、华中师范大学[微博]武汉传媒学院等几所院校，随机调查了220名大学生，其中男生占74人，女生146人。调查显示，近六成大学生有过“被相亲”的经历，三成大学生家中长辈有让他们“相亲”之意；仅一成大学生表示长辈们认为大学相亲太早了。

recently,Hankou college students in hubei university of technology press corps/Wuhan university of engineering/Hankou college/Central China normal university wuhan institute of media and other [microblogs] a few colleges and universities,A random survey of 220 college students,The boys accounted for 74,Girl's 146 people.According to the survey,Nearly sixty percent of college students"Have been dating"The experience of,Thirty percent of college students home elder has let them"On a blind date"The meaning of;Only ten percent of college students said elders think university dating too early.

　　汉口学院大一女生胡灵认为，大学就找对象也太操之过急了，还应以学业为主，“找对象”应是毕业以后的事情。

Hankou college freshman girls think Hu Ling,The university is to find objects too rushed,You should also give priority to with their studies,"To find objects"Should be after graduation.

　　对此，华中师范大学生命科学院教授彭晓辉笑称，中学时家长[微博]们都忙着“防早恋”，到了大学家长们又忙着给孩子们“找对象”，这是自相矛盾，“其实家长们应该学会顺应个性化教育，初、高中的时候，当孩子们有比较亲密的异性朋友，家长们可以去做正确的引导，而不是勒令孩子们不许‘早恋’。”

For this,Central China normal university professor of the college of life science Peng Xiaohui smile said,Middle school parents (microblogging) were busy"The puppy love",Busy parents to give children to university"To find objects",This is a contradiction,"Actually parents should learn to adapt to the personalized education,At the beginning/In high school,When the children have a close male friend,Parents can go to do the right guidance,Not ordered the children not to‘Puppy love’."