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[导读 takeaway]近几年在全国很多地方，发生了学生跳楼事件。这些极端孤立的事件如果联系起来，不难发现，在对待孩子教育和评价观点上，家长、学校、社会都出现了偏差和误区。

] in recent years, many places in the country,Students to jump off a building events happened.If these extreme isolated event,It's not hard to find,In the treatment of children education and evaluation point of view,parents/The school/Society has appeared deviation and error.

　　1月11日17时27分左右，14岁的初一学生强强(化名)背着书包从11楼跳下身亡。书包里有他抄写的成绩单。

On January 11, 17 around 27 points,14, the first student of shandong(Not his real name)Carrying bag from the 11 floor jump down dead.Bag with his copy of the transcript.

　　强强是内蒙古呼和浩特实验中学的学生。警方推断，强强轻生是期末考试排名从全年级的290多名落到了600多名后，不堪忍受压力所致。

Shandong is a student of Inner Mongolia Hohhot experimental middle school.The police concluded that,Shandong suicide is a grade final ranking from the more than 290 fell more than 600,Unbearable stress.

　　是什么让孩子走上不归路？记者通过调查了解到，近几年在呼市地区先后发生了呼市二中分校、师大附中学生跳楼事件。而全国其他地方，也发生过类似事件。这些极端孤立的事件如果联系起来，不难发现，在对待孩子教育和评价观点上，家长、学校、社会都出现了偏差和误区。

What makes children took to the point of no return?The reporter understands the investigation,In recent years, successively occurred in Hohhot 2 campus in Hohhot area/Normal university affiliated high school students to jump off a building events.And the rest of the country,There was a similar event.If these extreme isolated event,It's not hard to find,In the treatment of children education and evaluation point of view,parents/The school/Society has appeared deviation and error.

一问家长：是不是太纠结于分数 Ask the parents:Isn't it too struggle with fractions

　　强强的妈妈长跪不起，哭声撕心裂肺。半年前，她费尽心血把儿子送到了全市首屈一指的“名校”，谁能想到竟是把他送上了绝路。她悲痛地忏悔，如果再给她一次机会，她绝不会逼着孩子学习，绝不会让孩子非上“名校”不可，绝不会再抢走孩子的周末……

Qiangqiang's mother to kneel,Cry tore heart crack lung.Half a year ago,She have painstakingly put the son to the city's second to none"Famous universities",Who would have thought was sending him to the wall.Her grief to repent,If you give her a chance,She would never force their children to study,Never let children"Famous universities"Do not,Will never again take children over the weekend……

　　呼市十四中校长梁永提醒家长，望子成龙，望女成凤，家长的心情可以理解，但决不能过分纠结于分数。一时考不好，并不能决定孩子一世做不好。“唯分数论”让孩子有无限的压力，心理脆弱的，也许就会想不开。现在学校不补课了，但校外补课火了，这反映了家长的心态：生怕自己的孩子落后了。

Hohhot 10 4 principal Liang Yong remind parents,Long to,Looking at a less-pressured,Parents' mood is understandable,But never worry about to score.A bad test,I cannot decide children can't do it well."Only scores theory"Let the child have endless pressure,Psychological vulnerability,Maybe will be hard.Don't make up a missed lesson school now,But outside the school make up a missed lesson,This reflects the mentality of parents:For fear that their children behind.

　　强强的班主任老师张永丽说，一些家长太看重孩子的成绩了，逼迫孩子为分数而学，结果熄灭了孩子对知识追求的热情。

Shandong teacher in charge teacher Zhang Yongli said,Some parents are too value the child's grades,Forcing children to learning for grades,Results out children's passion for intellectual pursuit.

　　家长陈丽艳说：“哪个家长不希望孩子考100分呢，包括我自己，也很在意孩子的成绩。但是在考分上过度纠缠就太不理智了，我认为成长比成绩更重要。”

Parents Chen Liyan said:"Which of the parents don't want to take an examination of 100 points,Including myself,Is also very care about the child's grades.But excessive entanglement in test scores is irrational,I think that growth is more important than grades."

　　内蒙古师范大学教育科学研究所教授米俊魁说，现在高校招的学生多了，按理说家长不应该只关心考试分数。当然高分能进名校，但进名校不一定就决定事业有成。我国的院士包括成功人士，许多也不是名校毕业的。家长们一定要摆正心态，多关心孩子的爱好、个性、意志品质、心理健康、身体素质，也就是成才先成人。

Professor of Inner Mongolia normal university institute of education science m handsome chief said,College recruit students now,Arguably the parents should not only care about test scores.Of course good grades can enter school,But in school not necessarily decided to a successful career.Academicians in China including successful people,Many of them have not graduated from famous universities.Parents must adjust state of mind,More concerned about the child's interest/personality/Will quality/The mental health/Physical quality,That is up to adults.

二问学校：被升学率“绑架”了吗 2 q school:By graduation rates"kidnapping"?

　　强强的离去，给他所在的呼市实验中学带来巨大压力。记者采访了解到，呼市实验中学采取摇号入学，每个年级24个班。然后通过入学摸底成绩按3个层次分班，形成快、中、慢各8个班。社会上所传的“火箭班”就是快班。

Qiangqiang's departure,Lead to huge pressure to his Hohhot experimental middle school.Reporters learned that,Hohhot experimental middle school adopt a lottery,Each class of 24.And then through the entrance examination scores according to the three level placement,Formation of fast/In the/Slowly each class eight.The preaching of society"The rockets class"Is the program.

　　校长屈惠华说，必须承认学生是有差异的，同一层次的学生，有利于教与学。不同层次的学生，我们要研究制定不同的教学方法。比如快班，可以教得更多、更难。慢班，可以教得少一点儿，简单一点，甚至可以延长一学年，目的是让他们学会，学扎实。如果第一名和最后一名在一个班，相差几百分，老师不仅没法教，最后一名的学生也会更伤自尊。

The headmaster said QuHuiHua,Must admit students there is a difference,The same level of students,Is conducive to teaching and learning.Different levels of students,We should study the different methods of teaching.Such as the program,Can you teach more/More difficult to.A class for slow kids,Can teach a little less,A little bit more simple,It can even extend the school year,Purpose is to make them learn,Learn to strong.If the first name and last name in a class,A few hundred points behind,The teacher can't teach not only,Finally a student may also be more self-respect.

　　屈惠华说，考试和分数，是教学的重要参考手段，是检验老师、孩子教与学状态的手段，不能没有。关键是家长和社会要对教育规律有充分的尊重，对分数和分班有一个科学的认识。这也提醒我们，家庭和学校一定要建立起互动机制，更加重视孩子的心理健康教育问题。

QuHuiHua said,The exam and score,Is the important reference of teaching means,Is the teacher/Children of the state of the teaching and learning methods,We can not live without.Key is for parents and society education law are fully respected,The scores and divide into classes have a scientific understanding of.This also reminds us,Families and schools must establish the interactive mechanism,Pay more attention to mental health of the children education problem.

　　米俊魁说，现在学校被“绑架”了，绑绳就是“升学率”。家长和社会衡量学校好不好，就看升入重点大学、重点高中的人数。考试是手段，但不是目标。这起事件暴露了中国教育的误区：家长太现实了；学校被迫搞精英教育，过分注重成绩好的学生；社会流行择名校、进名校，完全不顾孩子的个性，跟风严重。

M handsome chief said,The school is now"kidnapping"the,Tie the rope is"Graduation rates".Parents and society to measure school is good,Will look into a key university/The number of the key high school.Examination is a means to,But it is not a goal.The incident has exposed the myth of Chinese education:Parents are too reality;School was forced to make elite education,Overemphasis on result good students;Choose the school social popularity/Into the school,Completely regardless of the child's personality,Copycat seriously.

三问社会：给素质教育提供环境了吗 3 q society:To provide quality education environment

　　在呼和浩特，重点高中的校长“牛得很”，他们被有能力的家长围着，每年的“条子生”是显示他们地位的最好证明。以呼和浩特二中为例，统招计划后，校长偏偏要留下几个“条子班”，还要办分校、办国际班，引导着人们托人找关系高价进名校。没有门路的家长，也只能指望孩子的成绩了。

In Hohhot,The key high school principal"Cow very much",They are capable of parents around,From year to year"Striped raw"Is the best proof of their status.In Hohhot, 2 for example,After TongZhao plan,The principal must leave a few"Note class",Will do,/Do the international class,Leads people to client looking for relationship, and the price into the school.Parents have no way,Can only rely on the child's grades.

　　而普通高中，门庭冷落。好的生源都被重点高中挑走了，所以学校再努力也赶不上重点高中。这样的招生永远有利于重点高中。再加上人财物的公共财政倾斜，可以说“优质”是人为政策“保护”出来的。

The ordinary high school,The crowds.Good students were swept away by the key high school to choose,So the school try again also fail to catch the key high school.The enrollment of this forever is advantageous to the key high school.Coupled with the human, financial and public finances,Can say"High quality"Is policy"To protect"Out of the.

　　采访中一些非重点学校的校长认为，教育管理部门对学校的考评，重点就是升学率。要知道，把成绩差的学生教好更不容易，而这个过程正是教育的本质，但现在考评不重视这个过程。有人假设，让重点学校的校长和老师与非重点学校的集体互换一下，他们未必有我们管理教育得好。

In an interview with some of the key school headmaster said,Evaluation of school education management department,Focus on the graduation rates.Want to know,The students with poor grades is not easy to teach more,And this process is the essence of education,But now not attach importance to the process.People assume that,Make key school principals and teachers and non-key schools, collective exchange,They do not necessarily have our management education well.

　　采访中一些校长透露，素质教育喊了多年，为什么推行缓慢？原因之一是学校没有宽松的机会。去年，有的学校取消了中长跑，就是无奈选择。体操课取消了，到大自然中接受熏陶的春游、秋游也取消了，因为安全问题，学校无法承受。而这些课程正是培养学生意志品质、吃苦耐劳、团队精神、责任意识的课程。

Interview revealed some of the principal,Quality education call for many years,Run slow why?One reason is that schools have no chance to loose.Last year,,Some schools cancel the middle-distance race,It is helpless choice.Gymnastics class is cancelled,To accept the edification of spring outing in nature/Autumn is also cancelled,Because of security issues,The school can't afford to.And these courses is to cultivate students will quality/Bear hardships and stand hard work/Team work spirit/Responsibility consciousness of the curriculum.

　　米俊魁说，接连出现的学生轻生悲剧，警示我们该反思教育思维上出现的偏差和误区了。长期以来，在应试教育大背景下，对学生的评价，尽管大家都知道应该是德智体美劳全面评价，但是由于客观环境的影响，单一以分数作为评价学生的唯一指标的情况并不少见。我们不妨来个大讨论，让问题越辩越明。

M handsome chief said,Frequent student suicide tragedy,Appear on the warning we should reflect on education thinking bias and misunderstanding.For a long time,Under the background in the exam-oriented education,Evaluation of students,Although everyone knows should be physique and comprehensive evaluation,But because of the influence of the objective environment,Single to score as the only index to evaluate student's case is not rare.We might as well have a big discussion,The problem the debate the Ming.