浙江在线9月18日讯 Zhejiang online on September 18 (xinhua)幼儿园新生、小学新生已经过了十多天的校园生活了，孩子会如何应对新环境的挑战？家长有没有适应“离别”？孩子过得好不好，老师对孩子好不好？

Kindergarten new/Primary school freshman has been more than ten days of campus life,Children will be how to deal with the challenges in the new environment?Parents have to adapt to"absence"?The child had a good,The teacher is good for children?

　　虽然只有十多天，但各种令人啼笑皆非的事情频频发生，无疑，孩子和家长都存在一个过渡适应期。

Although only more than ten days,But various wry chronicling things occurred frequently,undoubtedly,Children and parents are there is a transition adaptive phase.

　　

爷爷送孙子上幼儿园 Grandpa sent grandson in kindergarten

　　

连续三天在分别时哭了 In the three consecutive days were crying

　　孩子初上幼儿园，哭闹是免不了的。

At the beginning of the children in the kindergarten,Crying is inevitable.

　　星河幼儿园开园第一天，小朋友子建(化名)由爷爷带着来上学。

The Milky Way KaiYuan first day of kindergarten,Children built the son(alias)The grandpa took to go to school.

　　到幼儿园门口时，子建还挺开心。找到班主任蒋老师，子建就牵上了老师的手。眼看孙子要进教室，爷爷有些舍不得，眼圈一红，声音哽咽了：“在幼儿园，记得要听老师的话。”子建的笑容也立马变成哭相，一下挣脱老师的手，扑到爷爷怀里，哭得难舍难分。

When the door to the kindergarten,Build the son still pretty happy.Find the teacher in charge teacher jiang,The son built took on the teacher's hand.See grandson go into the classroom,Grandpa some loathe to give up,Eye a red,Voice choked the:"In the kindergarten,Remember to listen to the teacher's words."The son built smile also immediately become cry phase,The break the teacher's hand,Robot to grandpa bosom,Cry inseparable.

　　接着，爷爷向老师请了假，带子建回家，并且保证，明天一定说服子建乖乖上幼儿园。

then,Grandpa to the teacher asked for leave,Tape built home,And make sure,Tomorrow must convince son built darling in kindergarten.

　　第二天，爷孙俩到了校门口，又是难舍难分地哭。蒋老师劝了好久，才把子建带进教室。

The next day,Ye both sun to the school gate,To cry is inseparable.Jiang teacher advised for a long time,To handle built brought into the classroom.

　　事后，蒋老师给子建的爷爷做思想工作：“想让子建不哭，首先您自己得克制住。”子建的爷爷连连点头，保证以后自己一定不哭。

afterwards,Chiang the teacher gave son built grandpa do ideological work:"Want to let the son built don't cry,First you have to choke."The son built grandpa nodded again and again,After that he would cry.

　　第三天，爷爷还是先哭了，哭声甚至够得上凄凄切切。

On the third day,Grandpa or first cry,Crying even enough for long windy and rainy.

　　蒋老师又好气又好笑：“上个幼儿园，怎么搞得像是上战场似的。”

Jiang teacher angry and funny:"Last kindergarten,How to make such as in the fields like."

　　上周五，蒋老师好不容易把子建哄进教室，手机就响了起来，“老师你好，我是子建爷爷，子建安全进教室了吗？”

Last Friday,Jiang teacher very not easy handle built coax into the classroom,Mobile phone rang up,"The teacher hello,My son is built grandpa,The son to build security into the classroom?"

　　要知道，爷爷刚刚才离开孙子三分钟，蒋老师哭笑不得。

Want to know,Grandpa just leave grandson three minutes,Miss jiang in distress situation.

　　星河幼儿园园长姚明敏说，宝宝在上幼儿园的头几天，哭闹是很正常的现象。“宝宝天天和家里人呆在一起的，现在要分开，肯定舍不得。”

The Milky Way kindergarten YaoMingMin kinzley said,The baby in the first few days of the kindergarten,Crying is a normal phenomenon."The baby and the family every day to stay together,Now have to be apart,Affirmation won't."

　　一般情况下，开学第二周哭闹要比第一周还要严重一些。“第一周，孩子还有些新鲜感，到了第二周，新鲜感过去了，宝宝会更想家人，哭闹现象反而更严重。”

generally,In the second week of school than crying in the first week and serious."The first week,The child still have some freshness,By the end of the second week,Freshness past,The baby will be more want to family,Instead of crying phenomenon more serious."

　　有些孩子甚至还会表现抵触行为。“我曾经教过这样一个男孩，他觉得幼儿园就是把妈妈和自己分开的地方，于是他把老师和阿姨当成敌人，不肯吃幼儿园里的食物。所有老师都拿他没办法。和家长前后沟通了一个月，他才愿意在园里吃饭。”

Some children even conflict behavior performance."I once taught such a boy,He felt the kindergarten is mother and their separate place,Then he put the teacher and aunt as the enemy,Refused to eat the food in the kindergarten.All teachers take he can't.And parents to communicate before and after a month,He was willing to eat in the garden."

　　孩子不愿意上幼儿园的现象，一般会持续一个月。这段时间里，家长要调整好自己，要用平淡的态度来面对孩子的情绪，“你要告诉孩子，幼儿园里有很多好玩的游戏，还可以认识很多朋友，让孩子产生兴趣。”

The child is not willing to kindergarten phenomenon,General will last for a month.This time,Parents should adjust yourself,Want to use matter-of-fact attitude to face the child's emotions,"You want to tell the children,The kindergarten has a lot of fun games,Can also make a lot of friends,Let the child interest."

　　

上课第一天男生打哭四名男同学 School the first day the boy play cry four male classmate

　　

班主任喊哑了嗓子 The teacher in charge shout dumb voice

　　周老师是学林街小学的新生班主任。她头一次带新生，以前都带六年级。

Miss zhou is Harvard University street primary school freshmen.Her head with a new,Before six year with.

　　开学才短短两周，周老师天天扯着嗓子喊，喉咙已经哑了。“不过，带着这群孩子，个个像小天使，还是很开心的。”

Opening to just two weeks,Weeks every day the teacher at the voice shouted,Throat has a dud."but,With this group of children,All like little angel,Still very happy."

　　每堂课，周老师都觉得特别劳心， “上课才五分钟，他们就坐不住，讲话的、自管自玩……什么样都有，我就只好扯开嗓子喊了。”

Each class,Miss zhou all feel special knowledge, "The class is only five minutes,They sit through,speak/Tub stand on its own bottom play……What kind have,I had to tear open voice shouted."

　　周老师用尽办法，以便让孩子们集中注意力，比如上课间隙，让他们伸伸懒腰、做做操，现在还让他们用才学不多的拼音字母编儿歌。

Miss zhou run out a way,In order to let the children concentration,Such as class clearance,Let them stretched himself/Do some exercises to,Now also let them use to learn the phonetic alphabet of few simple rhyme.

　　最让周老师头痛的孩子，是豆豆(化名)，“上课第一天，他一个人打哭了4个男生，第二天，又把一个女孩子的手上掐出乌青。”

The most let weeks teacher headache children,Is doug(alias),"School the first day,He is a person to play cry four boys,The next day,And a girl hand device out black."

　　每天都有孩子来告状：周老师，豆豆上课踢我凳子；周老师，豆豆抢我的铅笔；周老师，上课时豆豆总和我说话，我连课都听不进了……

Every day there are children to heads:Miss zhou,Doug class play my stool;Miss zhou,Doug rob my pencil;Miss zhou,Class total doug talking to me,I couldn't into the class……

　　前几天，周老师打算选几个孩子帮忙收作业本，“表现好的小朋友，可以帮老师把收同学的本子。”选的孩子里没有豆豆，他就直接冲到周老师面前：“我做得这么好，你不选我，眼睛瞎了啊。”

A few days ago,Miss zhou going to choose several children help the exercise book,"Good children,Can help the teacher to the students of the book."Choose children there is no doug,He will direct impact to the week before the teacher:"I've done so well,You don't choose me,Eyes blind ah."

　　边上有个小朋友怯生生地说：“豆豆，你表现又不好，昨天还弄哭了隔壁班的一个女孩呢。”虽然豆豆的气焰焉了大半，但依旧强词夺理：“那是昨天的事，我今天表现好的。”

The edge has a timid children said:"doug,Your performance and bad,Yesterday also cry the next class a girl?."Although the flames of doug how the most,But still argue irrationally:"It is yesterday,Today I good."

　　事后，周老师把豆豆叫到办公室谈心，豆豆主动承认了错误，态度非常好。可一回到教室，又成了小霸王。

afterwards,Weeks teacher put the doug call to the office speaking,Doug initiative admit a mistake,Attitude is very good.But a return to the classroom,And became a little overlord.

　　周老师认为，孩子打人通常是想和对方交流却不知道交流方法，就用推或拍来探究。

Miss zhou think,The child object is usually want to communicate with each other but don't know communication method,With the push or take to explore.

　　“对豆豆这样的孩子，不要深究对错，更不要贴上‘坏学生’的标签，这只会挫伤孩子的自尊心。”

"To doug such children,Don't dig right and wrong,More don't labeled as‘A bad student’label,It will only bruising the child's self-esteem."

　　周老师认为，只要好好教，肯定能改掉豆豆的坏习惯，正确方法应该是这样的：“发现他欺负同学，要第一时间让他向同学道歉。在日常生活中，要多鼓励多表扬，教育和指导他做事情要有商有量，只有跟大家相处好了，才能拥有更多的朋友。等孩子尝到甜头，久而久之就逐渐不打人了。”

Miss zhou think,As long as a good teaching,Sure you can get rid of the bad habit of doug,The correct method should be such:"Found he bullies classmate,The first time to make his students to apologize.In daily life,Should encourage more praise,Education and guide him to do things to have company has quantity,Only with everyone get along well,To have more friends.When the child is taste blood,As time passes gradually don't hit the."