这位爸爸叫吴小军，是浙江金华一名老师，也是“全国教育科研先进个人”获得者。

The father called WuXiaoJun,Is the zhejiang jinhua a teacher,Is also"The national education scientific research advanced individual"winner.

　　吴小军在日记里不仅记下女儿的成长与变化，第一次独自乘电梯、第一次吃自助餐、第一次不跟父母外出……还记下了许多他的育儿经验。昨天他在接受本报记者采访时说：“不能输在起跑线上的应是健康的身体、阳光的心态、广泛的兴趣、积极的情感，而不是考试成绩，对一个孩子的培养教育需要持之以恒的关注、引领和教育。”

WuXiaoJun in his diary note not only daughter's growth and change,The first time the elevator alone/First time to eat buffet/Not for the first time with parents go out...Also write down a lot of his child-raising experience.Yesterday he told this newspaper reporters:"Can't lose in the starting line should be healthy body/The sunlight in your heart/Broad interests/Positive emotion,Instead of examination results,For a child's culture education need to perserve attention/Lead and education."

每天确保女儿10小时睡眠 Every day to ensure that daughter 10 hours of sleep

　　记者：今天是第多少篇日记？

reporter:Today is the first how many diary?

　　吴小军：4310篇，女儿是2000年12月24日出生的，至今4310天。

WuXiaoJun:Article 4310,Daughter is December 2000 born 24,So far 4310 days.

　　记者：我也为小孩记过日记，但现在已经是一个月才记几篇，有时是没东西可记，有时一忙又忘记了。

reporter:I also give a demerit for kids diary,But it is a month to remember several pieces,Sometimes is nothing to remember,Sometimes a busy and forgot.

　　吴小军：对，有这个过程，我觉得我写日记的意志力还可以，我现在每天写3种日记：学生日记、工作日记和女儿成长日记，前面两个日记一定在学校完成，女儿成长日记在家里完成，一般临睡前，此时万籁俱寂，捧一个茶杯，撮三片茶叶，沏上热茶，开点音乐，3片苹果或者小番茄，那是一种享受，然后看书睡觉，有时累了或者迟了，我就第二天一早起来写，那时大家还在梦中，我又沙沙地写上了，真有一种“世人皆睡我独醒”的惬意。

WuXiaoJun:to,The process,I think I write in this diary willpower can also,Now I write diary every day three:Student diary/Work diary and daughter grow diary,The first two must be in the school to complete the diary,Daughter grow diary finished in the home,General face before sleeping,All is quiet at this time,Holding a cup,Pinch of three pieces of tea,On making tea,Open some music,Three slices of apple or small tomato,That is a kind of enjoyment,And then reading sleep,Sometimes tired or late,I will write up the second day early in the morning,At that time we also in a dream,I have to write down the sasha vujacic,True have a"The world all sleep I wake up alone"nice.

　　记者：我看了部分日记，谈学习的比较少？

reporter:I see some diary,Talking about their study less?

　　吴小军：的确比较少，因为我觉得孩子如果养成了好的习惯、好的个性，学习是自然而言的事情。我的女儿是越大越不要我们操心，我不会要求她一定要考什么名校，拿什么分数，网上有网友评价我们说，这个爸爸有点毅力有点恒心，但女儿不咋的，我女儿确实不咋的，没考这个考那个，但她现在12岁不到，个子已经有1.58米了，我每天会确保她10个小时的睡眠，吃东西也不挑食。

WuXiaoJun:Indeed less,Because I think children if formed the good habit/Good personality,Learning is the nature of things.My daughter is the bigger the don't we worry about,I will not ask she must take an examination of what school,Take what fraction,Online netizens evaluation we said,The dad is a little bit a little perseverance stamina,But the daughter was not so good,My daughter is really was not so good,Didn't test the exam that,But now she is less than 12 years old,Is already have 1.58 m,Every day I will ensure that she 10 hours of sleep,Eat not picky.

　　在家里，比如有什么好吃的东西，我不会放在她面前，也不会说：女儿，你多吃点，而是我要和她抢着吃，我会表现出很喜欢吃的样子，全家争着吃。

At home,Such as have what good things,I will not in front of her,Would not say:daughter,You eat more,But I want to and she rob to eat,I'll show very like to eat appearance,Family emulatively eat.

　　记者：您对她的原则是？

reporter:You to her principles are?

　　吴小军：简单地说，中心就是确保身心健康；两大要点就是做人和做学问。做人方面，我对孩子的底线要求是能自食其力，她的存在让周围人没有危机感，高标准是她让周围人有幸福感。做学问，我希望中学不偏科，到了大学后选择专业爱好，学问做好了，做事情自然问题不大。

WuXiaoJun:Simply said,Center is to ensure the health of body and mind;Two points is person and a scholar.life,I to the child's bottom line requirement is to be able to earn one's own living,Her existence it makes other people around no crisis awareness,High standard is she lets those around you have happiness.scholar,I hope school precious things,The university choose professional interests,Learning ready,Do not natural problems.

　　记者：会给她报很多兴趣班吗？

reporter:Would give her to a lot of interest?

　　吴小军：我们不会逼她，现在很有意思，她看到同学上了会主动要求上，比如学英语，她很有兴趣，还要报两个班，后来我们觉得这样她的学习压力太大，就退了一个班。

WuXiaoJun:We won't force her,Now is very interesting,She saw the students will be active requirements,For example to learn English,She is very interested in,To quote two classes,Later we feel so she study pressure is too big,He returned a class.

　　记者：上进心怎么引导培养的？

reporter:The desire to do better how to guide the training?

　　吴小军：我家算是一个民主的家庭，许多事情大家商量着办。比如添张沙发，质地款式也要听取女儿意见；又如，卧室里要不要安装电视机的问题，经全家人讨论，最后一致决定：为了不影响睡眠，不影响视力，卧室里不安装电视机。我只是给大家一个启发，每个人的方法不一样，需要顺其自然、因势利导，要有针对性地引领，而不是放任自流。

WuXiaoJun:My house is a democratic family,Many things we do discuss the.Such as add sofa,Texture design also wants to listen to opinions daughter;And as,The bedroom to do not install television problem,The whole family to discuss,Finally unanimously decided to:In order to not affect sleep,Don't affect vision,The bedroom not to install television.I just give you an inspired,Each person's method is not the same,Need to let nature take its course/Improve the occasion,To pertinently lead,Rather than let slide.

教育是滞后的，不要目光短浅 Education is lagged behind,Don't short-sighted

　　记者：您觉得父母之于儿女、老师之于学生的教育是什么？

reporter:Do you think that the parents to their children/The teacher the student's education is what?

　　吴小军：我不喜欢用教育，我觉得是积极的、以身作则的引领，教育有时起不了作用。有人说，孩子是一张白纸，可以画最美的图案，可孩子并不是白纸，每一个孩子生下来，其实已经具备了遗传、智力等许多的东西。有家长会说，不能让孩子输在起跑线上，那这个起跑线在哪呢，在肚里吗？还是在选择对象的那一刻？

WuXiaoJun:I don't like to use education,I do think it is positive/Set an example of lead,Education sometimes has no effect.Some say,The child is a blank sheet,Can make the most beautiful pattern,Can the child is not white paper,Every child was born,In fact already have a genetic/Intelligence and many other things.A parents' meeting said,Can't let children lose in the starting line,The starting line,In his stomach??Or in the moment of the objects of choice?

　　要我说，是健康的身体、阳光的心态、广泛的兴趣、积极的情感不能输在起跑线上，而不是考试成绩，教育是滞后的，不要目光短浅。我女儿是不咋的，但每个人是最好的自己就可以了，她以后扫地扫得好也值得我骄傲。（记者周裕妩）

Want me to say,Is health/The sunlight in your heart/Broad interests/The positive emotion cannot lose in the starting line,Instead of examination results,Education is lagged behind,Don't short-sighted.My daughter is not so good,But everyone is your best is ok,She later sweep the floor and well also deserves my pride.(Reporter ZhouYu Wu)