连日来，一些人们原以为理所当然的社会现象在被贴上了 “中国式”的标签后，一跃成为社会各界讨论的焦点，并引起无数人的关注和反省，一如“中国式接送”：每逢放学时间，家长们开着各种交通工具，扎堆中小学校门口翘首以待，导致学校附近交通堵塞。

For the last few days,Some people thought of course in has been labeled as a social phenomenon "Chinese"Tag after,The social from all walks of life has become the focus of debate,Countless people and cause attention and reflection,as"Chinese transportation":Every time after school,Parents open all kinds of transportation,Gathers together perked up school primary and secondary schools,Cause traffic jams near our school.

　　在鹭岛，“厦门式”也是“中国式”的接送孩子现象也在每天上下学时间准时上演，并成为两代人每天的功课。

In LuDao,"Xiamen type"Is also"Chinese"The shuttle children phenomenon in ShangXiaXue every day on time on time,And become two generations lessons every day.

　　

没条件也要创造条件接送 No conditions will create conditions transfers

　　前天中午，厦外附小三年级学生阳阳放学后，背起书包就径直走到校门口。不过，他并没有一下子融入人潮中，而是站上大门旁的阶梯四处张望。

At noon the day before yesterday,The xiamen primary grade three students after school Yang,Take up bag will go straight to the school gate.but,He did not suddenly into the crowd,But on the gate ladder looks around.

　　这时的阳阳，对眼前众多聚集在校门口着急等待孩子出现的家长早已是司空见惯。一会儿，嘈杂的人群里传来熟悉的声音：“阳阳，爷爷在这里！”循着声音的方向找到爷爷后，阳阳蹦下阶梯，拨开人群，好不容易跑到爷爷身边。

The Yang,Many eyes to gather at the school gate try so hard for the children to appear parents is already commonplace.For a while,In the midst of the noisiest crowds came familiar voice:"Yang,Grandpa here!"Follow the voice direction find after grandpa,Yang jumped down the stair,Through the crowd,Very not easy ran to his bedside.

　　爷爷说，他每天都要来接阳阳，再和阳阳一起走回家。“阳阳的父母工作忙，就把我从老家接过来专门负责接送孩子上下学。其实从学校走路回家也就十分钟，但是我们还是放心不下。”

Grandpa said,Every day he would come to meet Yang,Go home again and Yang."Yang parents work favour,Took me from their hometown took it specifically responsible for the shuttle children ShangXiaXue.Actually walking home from school is ten minutes,But we still feel secure."

　　在厦门几乎所有小学校门口，这样的场景每天都要上演。对绝大多数家长来说，有条件的基本上都会接送，没条件的也要创造条件来接送。而据不完全统计，小学生被接送的比例达到九成以上。至于其中的原因，最主要的还是安全问题。许多家长都表示：马路上车那么多，哪敢让孩子自己走！现在家里都只有一个孩子，经不起一点差错。

Almost all elementary school in xiamen,Such a scene on every day.For most parents speaking,Conditional basically will shuttle,No condition also to create conditions for transfers.And according to not complete count,The proportion of primary school students was shuttle above ninety percent.As for the reason,The main or security issues.Many parents have said:Get on the road so much,Which dare to let the child go yourself!Now home have only one child,Can not stand a bit error.

　　莲花小学的学生家长许先生则表示，之前经常听说有很多孩子被拐骗的新闻，“现在我心里都有阴影了，还是自己接感觉比较踏实。”

Lotus elementary school students parents make a gentleman, said,Often heard before there are many children had been abducted news,"Now my in the mind have a shadow,Or oneself meet feel more dependable."

　　此外，也有家长表示担心孩子受学校附近不良小店的影响而学坏，或者在学校附近乱买 “三无”零食吃坏了肚子。

In addition,Also have the parents worried about kids to receive the school shop near the influence of bad and that which is evil,Or near the school disorderly buy "neutral"Snacks to eat bad the belly.

　　

考驾照买车就是为接孩子 A car driver's license is to pick up the kids

　　初二学生黄若欣自从上了初中后，家里就给她配了个“专职司机”，但在刚上岗时，这位司机的技术并不好。不过，她仍然是这个职位的不二人选，因为她就是黄若欣的妈妈陈女士！

There HuangReXin since junior high school students on after,Home to her with a"Full-time driver",But in just the mount guard,The driver technology is not good.but,She is still the position of two candidate,Because she is HuangReXin mother ms. Chen!

　　在黄若欣上初中前的那个暑假，陈女士不顾烈日炎炎，天天泡在驾校里，为的只是赶在黄若欣开学前考到驾照。此后，黄爸爸给陈女士买了一台两座的小型汽车，专供陈女士接孩子用。陈女士每天要做的最重要的一件事，就是按时把黄若欣送到学校上课，再在她放学前准时等在校门口接她。

In HuangReXin top junior high school before the summer holidays,Ms. Chen regardless of the sun,Every day bubble in the st,For is cast in before the start of the HuangReXin got his driver's license.Since then,Yellow dad to ms. Chen bought a two small cars,For ms. Chen joint with children.Ms. Chen to do every day one of the most important thing,Is the HuangReXin sent to school on time,In her again before school on time and meet her at the school gate.

　　“以前读小学时，学校离家比较近，现在离得远了，接送是有必要的。”陈女士说，而这样“功课”，她打算一直坚持到黄若欣高中毕业。

"Before elementary school,School and home are closer,Now the far gone,Shuttle is necessary."Ms. Chen said,this"homework",She plans to continue until HuangReXin graduated from high school.

　　初中生由家长接送的现象在厦门也很普遍。除了安全问题外，有家长说，这是为了防止孩子在放学后乱跑，“接送可以防止他们结伴去做一些比较危险的事，比如游泳等”。

Junior high school students by parent shuttle phenomenon in xiamen is also very common.In addition to the security problems,Parents say a,This is to prevent children in the running after school,"Shuttle can prevent they go to do some more dangerous things,Such as swimming, etc".

　　还有一位王姓家长坦言，“初中生正处于青春期，容易对异性产生好感，我就经常在路上看见一对一对的初中生在谈恋爱。上学放学的路上是孩子接触最长的时间段，我不希望孩子学习分心，所以我每天坚持接孩子。”

And a wang parents said,"Junior high school students are in adolescence,Easy to produce good to the opposite sex,I will always on the road, see one-on-one to of junior middle school students in love.On the way from school to school children contact is the longest time,I don't want children learn distraction,So every day I adhere to pick up the kids."

　　也有家长表示，接送孩子的途中是了解孩子的最佳时机，“这时候孩子通常比较愿意把学校发生的事情告诉我，而我也能通过与孩子的交流了解孩子的学习状态及其想法”。省下时间让孩子多睡一会

Also have parents said,Shuttle children's way is to know the best time to children,"This time children are usually willing to the school tell me what happened,And I also can pass and children exchange know the child's learning state and its idea".Save time to let children sleep a short while more

　　早在今年3月份，厦门一中学生就发起了“无接送日”，即在每周三拒绝家长上学和放学用车接送。而当时，经厦门一中学生调查，他们发现在厦门一中高中部，平均每五位学生中就有一人坐私家车上学。私家车过多早已成为“上学堵”的最主要原因。

As early as in March this year,Xiamen a middle school students is launched"No shuttle,",That in every Wednesday refused to parents to go to school and car shuttle school.At that time,After a survey of xiamen middle school students,They found that the school in xiamen one,Average every five students in one person sit private cars to go to school.There seem to be too had become"School plugging"The most main reason.

　　尽管许多家长也都了解他们开着私家车聚集在学校门口会造成交通拥堵，但记者在采访了几所高中的学生家长之后发现，他们“宁愿堵一会儿，也要把孩子接回家。反正每天都这样，已经习惯了”。

Although many parents also know they open private car gather at the school gate at will cause traffic jams,But reporter interviews in several high school students after parents found,they"Would rather plugging for a while,Also to take the children home.Anyway, so every day,Has been used".

　　和小学生与初中生相比，高中生家长接送孩子的原因则主要与高中繁重的课业有关。即使有些学生认为“自己可以走”，但家长们还是坚持接送。

And primary and junior high school student than,High school students parents transfers the child's reason is main and high school heavy schoolwork relevant.Even if some students think"They can go",But parents insisted on transfers.

　　正如家长林双河所说，“上了高中，孩子学习那么累，还要让他自己每天挤公交上学或回家，我们还真舍不得。再说了，我们自己开车接送，就算堵一会儿，也比孩子自己回家来得快。这些节省下来的时间，就算是用来让孩子多睡一会儿也值得。”

As parents forest double river said,"On the high school,Children learn so tired,And let him every day crowded bus to go to school or go home,We are sorry.Besides the,We drive transfers,Even if the plugging for a while,Than children home on your own faster.These the time saved,It is used to make the child much sleep also worthy of."

　　所以现在，每天正常的上下学时间以及晚自习放学时间，在一些学校门口，私家车聚集的现象成了“雷打不动”的一幕。“下雨天，更是堵得一塌糊涂。”

So now,Every normal ShangXiaXue arching over time and after school time,In some school gate,Private cars gathered phenomenon became"unshakable"scene."Rainy days,More plugging in a big mess."

　　

观点授之以鱼不如授之以渔 View give fish is better than to give fish

　　厦门一中德育处副主任林宗进老师说，在厦门一中，自倡导“无接送日”以来，绝大多数家长都能配合。但值得一提的是，“无接送日”只是每周一天，如果要劝导家长天天都不接送孩子的话，那不太现实。

Xiamen one in moral education, deputy director of LinZongJin teacher said,In xiamen one,Since the advocate"No shuttle,"since,Most parents can fit.But what is worth mentioning,"No shuttle,"Only one day a week,If you want to persuade parents everyday not shuttle children said,It's not too realistic.

　　林宗进老师认为，在厦门导致大量家长接送孩子的现象，主要有三方面原因，一是现在的孩子都是独苗苗，家长都很心疼孩子，对孩子寄予很高的期望；二是目前整个厦门市的优秀教育资源分布不均，家门口没有好的学校，为了不让孩子输在起跑线上，有些家长宁愿天天“远距离跋涉”也要让孩子上心仪的学校；第三则是厦门公交体系不完善，路线设计有待改进，有些孩子住在远一点的地方，就没有直达公交。

LinZongJin teacher think,In xiamen, resulting in a large number of parents transfers the child's phenomenon,There are three major reasons,One is now the child is an only child seedlings,Parents are very distressed children,For children placed high expectations;The second is that currently the whole xiamen excellent education resources distribution is uneven,Door did not have a good school,In order not to let children lose in the starting line,Some parents would rather every day"Remote trudge"Also want to let children the right school;The third is xiamen bus system is not perfect,Route design needs to be improved,Some children live in a little bit and far place,There is no direct bus.

　　林宗进老师表示，如果学校离家不是太远的话，建议家长还是尽量不要接送孩子，这样一来，不仅可以减轻周边的交通压力，也可以培养孩子的独立能力，毕竟“授之以鱼不如授之以渔，给金给银不如给技在身”。但如果家长非接不可，也请掐好时间，不要早早就将车停在校门附近，避免造成交通拥堵。

LinZongJin teacher said,If the school is not far from home words,Suggested that parents or try not to shuttle children,so,It can not only reduce the surrounding traffic pressure,Also can cultivate children's independent ability,After all"Give the fish is better than to give fish,To give is better than gold silver to skill body".But if parents not meet do not,Please also device good time,Don't early car in a nearby school,Avoid to cause traffic jams.

　　此外，也有老师认为，家长的一系列担心和顾虑的背后，是令人无奈的社会现实。有这样一组数据：2011年，全国因交通事故死亡的中小学生共4205人，就是每三四天，全国就有1个班的孩子消失了！此外，公安部的一项通报也显示，2011年，全国共破获拐卖儿童案件5320起，共打掉3195个犯罪团伙，解救被拐儿童8660人。

In addition,Have a teacher to think,The parents of a series of concern and apprehension behind,Is a helpless social reality.Have such a set of data:In 2011,,Because of the traffic accident death of primary and middle school students altogether 4205 people,Is that every 3 or 4-day,The national have a class children disappeared!In addition,The ministry of public security of a bulletin also showed,In 2011,,The cracked on the abduction of children's case 5320,A total of 3195 out of a criminal gang,Save the kidnapping children's 8660 people.

　　试想，在这些数据面前，即使父母也希望孩子能自行上下学，但谁能保证孩子自己回家的道路是顺畅的？(海峡导报 记者 梁静/文 张向阳/图)

Just think,In front of these data,Even if the parents hope children can ShangXiaXue itself,But who can guarantee that the child home on your own way is smooth?(Channel reporter gaining LiangJing/text ZhangXiangYang/diagram)

　　(来源:东南新闻网)

(Sources: southeast news network)