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家长为孩子网上“占坑” 称不能输在网络起跑线--亲稳舆论引导监测室
2012-11-04

  记者随后就此事加入了3个妈妈群,对30位孩子家长做了调查。19位家长愿意给孩子在网上“占坑”,另外11位家长表示反对。

Reporter then it joined the three mother group,30 a child parent do the investigation.19 parents are willing to give the child on the Internet"Accounted for pit",Another 11 parents said against.

父母为未出生宝宝占网坑 不让孩子输 Parents for the unborn baby and pit of don't let kids lose? ?? ?

  多数家长表示,用网络记录孩子成长过程不容易丢失。网友王女士说,给孩子申请QQ是很时尚的做法。当儿子20天的时候,她就为他开通了QQ号。现在孩子3岁多了,QQ空间里已有上百条记录,大多是孩子的照片以及成长趣事。“绝不能让孩子输在网络起跑线上,我会一直坚持更新下去。”王女士说,这些网络记录等孩子长大看了,一定能拉近她与孩子之间的距离。她希望孩子长大后,他们之间不仅仅是母子的关系,希望与孩子成为朋友。

Most parents said,Use the Internet records the growing process of children don't get lost.Net friend ms. Wang said,Give children apply for QQ is very fashionable practice.When the son 20 days,She is as he opened QQ number.Now the children 3 years old,QQ space for hundreds of records,Most children's photos and growth fun."Can never let the child lost in the network on the starting line,I will always adhere to update it."Ms. Wang said,These networks in notes, etc and the child grew saw,Must be able to close the distance between her and the child.She hopes the child grew up,Between them is not only the relationship between the mother and child,Hope and children become friends.

  网友余女士说,女儿已四岁半。一岁时她就给孩子开通了微博,现在孩子微博里有500余张照片。她认为这些照片在网络上存着,很方便查看,不会像照片那样损坏、丢失。“等孩子慢慢长大,我们上传的照片所记录的生活点点滴滴,能让孩子明白,在她的成长过程中,父母所付出的心血。”

More than net friend lady said,The daughter has four years and a half.She gave the child a year launched micro bo,Now that the children are micro bo has more than 500 photo.She thinks the photos on the Internet stock,Very convenient to check,Not like photos that damage/lost."The kids growing up slowly,We upload photos recorded life dribs and drabs,Can let the child understand,In her growth process,Parents for the effort expended."

  少数家长认为,给小孩子注册QQ、微博太早,容易让孩子沉迷网络。网友张女士说,她儿子5个月。平时工作很忙,不太爱上网,也没有申请QQ和微博。张女士说:“孩子长大了,估计就不玩QQ了。”每个孩子今后都有他们自己的喜好,现在帮忙“练”着劳神费力。而过早拥有上网聊天工具,也可能让孩子沉迷于网络。

Minority parents think,Give children registered QQ/Micro Po early,Easy to let the child addict network.Net friend ms. Zhang said,Her son 5 months.Work at ordinary times very busy,Don't love the Internet,Also do not apply for the QQ and micro bo.Ms. Zhang said:"Children grow up,Estimation is not the play QQ."Each child in the future have their own preferences,Now help"practice"The exert.And early have Internet chat tool,May also let the child addicted to the Internet.

  网友黄女士说,她女儿8岁,现在上小学。自己爱上网看电视、购物、玩游戏,不到凌晨1点绝对不睡觉。黄女士说,她经常去朋友或邻居家,看到很小的孩子就会在电脑上玩游戏,如果家长不让玩,孩子马上就会大哭大闹。她十分反对家长给孩子在网络“占坑”,她觉得这既占用了网络资源,也给孩子带来一些不好的影响。

Net friend ms wong said,Her daughter is 8 years old,Now in elementary school.They love to watch TV on the Internet/shopping/Play games,Less than 1 am absolute don't sleep.Ms wong said,She often goes to a friend or neighbor's,See young children will play games on the computer,If parents do not let play,The child'll cry and make noise.She was very against parents give children in the network"Accounted for pit",She felt it was occupied the network resources,Also give the child brought some bad influence.

  湖北省社科院副院长秦尊文说,家长在给孩子写微博,挂QQ时也是一种关爱的体现。他十分理解父母给孩子网络“占坑”的良苦用心,是为了增强与孩子的互动和亲子关系。但他认为关爱孩子未来的同时,也要注意适度,不必过多去干涉他们的成长。当孩子长大有自己的想法时,家长应该尽量放手,让他们自己去写微博、上QQ与人交流,让孩子从中享受记录的快乐。这些成长过程是家长无法代替的。

Hubei province, vice President of the academy and qin said,Parents give children write micro bo,Hang QQ is also a kind of love, reflect.He was very understanding of the parents to the child network"Accounted for pit"Great effort in,In order to enhance and the child's interaction and parentage.But he thought that love child future at the same time,We have to pay attention to moderate,Don't have too much to interfere with their growth.When a child grow up have their own ideas,Parents should try to let go,Let their own to write micro bo/To communicate with people on QQ,Let the child to enjoy the happiness of record.The growth process is parents cannot substitute.

  武昌中北路小学德育主任万婷认为,随着电脑的普及,更多的孩子会利用网络来学习和交流。当孩子使用微博和QQ时,家长不能一味让孩子去积累网络资源,更应当注意如何去引导孩子上网。当孩子年龄较小时,家长一定要规定好孩子上网的时间,让他们只与同年龄段的孩子联系。而孩子在上网时,家长最好能陪同,这样会更加安全。

WuChangZhong north road primary school moral education director WanTing think,Along with the popularization of the computer,More children will use the network to study and communication.When the child USES a micro bo and when QQ,Parents can not blindly let children to accumulation of network resources,More attention should be paid to how to guide your child to the Internet.When the child age more hours,Parents must provisions of the good time,Let them only with age child contact.And the child when using the Internet,Parents best can accompany,This will be more safety.

  武汉荣格心理咨询中心首席心理咨询师黄进军说,家长为给孩子留回忆,在微博或空间里记录成长过程,他十分赞同。但他认为这些记录不应该是在孩子的微博或QQ上。家长为了不让孩子输在起跑线上,抢占先机。其实是家长对孩子走向学校以及对社会竞争的焦虑和不信任。孩子一旦感觉到家长对他们的这种期望时,很容易影响他们的学习状态。一旦成绩下降,就会备受打击。

Wuhan jung psychological counseling center chief psychological consultant yellow march said,For parents to children leave memories,In micro bo or space record growth process,He is agree with.But he thinks that these records should not be in the child's micro bo or QQ.Parents in order not to let children lose in the starting line,The run-up to.It is the parents to the child to school and to social competition anxiety and distrust.Once the child feel parents to their expectations,Very easy to affect their learning state.Once the performance decline,Will be devastated.

  黄进军认为,家长给孩子记录,潜意识是用这些记录让自己满足。孩子的成长以及学习过程应该让他们自己去享受去积累,不应该由家长代劳。家长为孩子准备得越多,只会让孩子的人生越空虚越苍白无力。

Yellow to think,Parents give children record,The subconscious mind is to use these records to meet.A child's growth and learning process should let their own to enjoy to accumulate,Should not be replaced by parents.The parents for children,Will only let the child's life more empty more pale.

  “亲!您为孩子抢注微博及QQ了吗?”随着微博和QQ的普及,网上出现了一种“怪现象”为了不让孩子“输在起跑线上”,现在,越来越多的家长热衷于给孩子开微博挂QQ,想等到孩子会上网时,QQ有3个太阳(获得1个太阳需要挂QQ320天)了,或是微博粉丝上万。“晒出去,一定很拉风!”

"close!For your child registered micro bo and QQ?"Along with the popularization of micro bo and QQ,Online in a"Strange phenomenon"In order not to let the child"Lose in the starting line",now,More and more parents to give the child open micro bo hang QQ,Want to wait until the child will on the Internet,QQ three SUNS(Get a sun need to hang QQ320 day)the,Or micro bo tens of thousands of fans."Drying out,Must be very smart!"

  昨天,一位武汉80后家长在发微博称:“亲们!你们给自己孩子注册微博了吗?刚在微博用女儿名字搜索一下,竟然没有人注册,赶紧用她名字注册开通了微博,等她长大了给她用。”

yesterday,A wuhan after 80 parents in FaWei bo said:"The kiss!You give their children registered micro Po?Just in micro Po with daughter name search,Actually no one registered,Hurriedly with her name registration opened micro bo,And she grew up to her."

  博主王先生介绍,他为孩子抢注微博号,是因为他前段时间在给自己开微博时发现,以自己名字命名的微博号,早已被人抢注。他十分后悔自己没能早点开通微博。随后,他在微博里搜索自己只有7个月大女儿的名字“王昱烨”时,发现此号并无人注册,于是十分欣喜地抢注了下来。

Bo Lord Mr. Wang is introduced,He is the child registered micro Po number,Some time ago because he in to open small bo found,In their own name micro Po number,People have been registered.He has bitterly repented his failed to open early micro bo.then,He in micro bo search yourself in only 7 months old daughter's name"WangYuYe"when,Find the number and there is no registration,So very delighted to snap down.

  第二天,他一到单位,就将这个好消息告诉了同事,同事们都纷纷赞同他的做法,并立即效仿。有的同事因为没能抢注到自己孩子的微博号而十分懊悔。

The next day,He to the unit,Will the good news told colleagues,His colleagues are agree with his approach,And immediately follow the lead of.Some colleagues because can't registered to their children's micro Po number and very remorse.

  王先生说,他自己的微博号后面加了后缀,总觉得太不正宗。随着微博的渐渐流行,以后的微博号和身份证一样,一人一号。而当他的孩子长大后,用着自己名字的微博写日记时,一定很让人羡慕。

Mr. Wang said,His own micro Po number with suffix behind,Always feel too not authentic.Along with the micro bo's gradually popular,After the micro Po number and id card as,A number.And when his children grow up,Use his name micro bo writing diary,Must be very envy letting a person.

  他的女儿王昱烨十分可爱漂亮。夫妇两人已经用孩子的微博前后发了2篇关于孩子的成长记录,他还会一直坚持下去,不定期更新。

His daughter WangYuYe very lovely beautiful.The couple have children before and after micro bo made 2 article about a child's growth record,He will also continue to stick to it,Don't regularly updated.

  “总算没让孩子和我一样留有遗憾,我们现在帮她维护着。等孩子长到七八岁会写点东西了,我们就当一份特殊礼物再送给她,她一定会很开心的。”

"Finally didn't let children and I am sorry to leave,We are now help her maintained.When the child is long to the age of seven will write something the,We when a special gift to give her,She will be very happy."

  现象二:家长帮着孩子挂QQ Phenomenon two:Parents help their children hang QQ

  家住武昌解放路的范先生,儿子5岁,QQ等级就已达到1个太阳。他和老婆都爱上网,经常用QQ聊天,深知QQ号的重要性。在孩子3个月时,他们就给孩子抢注了一个8位数的免费QQ号,并以孩子的小名“范范”做昵称。

Live in the wuchang jiefang road fan,5 years old son,QQ level had reached a sun.He and his wife love online,Often chat with QQ,Know the importance of QQ number.In the child 3 months,They gave the child registered a 8 digits of free QQ number,And with the child's childhood name"Van gundy"Make a nickname.

  范先生说:“我每天起床就会开电脑挂QQ,老婆也会帮忙一起挂。”现在范先生宝宝的QQ号上已经有40多个好友了,绝大多数是一些年龄相当的妈妈群里的好友。

Said fan:"Every day I get up will open computer hang QQ,The wife will also help hang together."Now Mr. Fan baby QQ number has the more than 40 friends,The vast majority are some age quite mother group of friends.

  夫妇俩觉得,现在一个孩子太自私太孤单,有了QQ可以经常联系好友,让孩子有更多的玩伴,培养他们的合群性格。

Couple feel,Now a child too selfish too lonely,The QQ can always contact with friends,Let children have more playmate,Develop and cultivate their character as well.

  “你看,这是李妈妈的儿子,才2岁,等级已经2个太阳了。这个女孩子比我孩子小半岁,是7位数的号……”范先生的老婆边说边打开好友资料,展示他们的网名及资料。“给孩子申请一个QQ号,我先帮他挂着。将来孩子长大了,QQ也是和老师、同学沟通的主要工具,到时候孩子QQ号的级别高了,会让周围的同学们羡慕。”

"You see,This is li mother's son,Just 2 years old,Rank has two the sun.The girl than my children age of smaller part,Is 7 digits of the number……"Mr. Fan's wife edge said side open friends material,Show them the net and material."Give children apply for a QQ number,First I help him hung.The future child grow up,QQ is also and the teacher/Students of the main communication tool,Then the child QQ number level high,Will get around the classmates envy."

  现象三:给未出世孩子写QQ日志 Phenomenon three:Give not born children write QQ logs

  在一家广告公司上班的陈女士,已怀孕8个月了。她怀孕四周后,就给孩子开通了QQ空间,并在QQ日志里记录了上百条孩子在肚子里成长的情况以及在怀孕中的趣事。

In an advertising company work of ms. Chen,Already pregnant 8 months.She pregnant after all around,Give the child opened QQ space,And in the QQ in the log records the article hundreds of children in the belly of the growth and the fun during pregnancy.

  “你看,他又在肚子里‘踢球’了”,陈女士指着肚子说。当她每一次在QQ日志里记录时,都能让她多一份喜悦。

"You see,He in the belly‘play’the",Ms. Chen said pointing to stomach.When she every time in QQ logs records,Can let her a joy.

  她盼望着孩子能平安降临,与她一起共享世界的美妙。现在,她孩子的QQ空间里已经有上百条留言。很多怀孕的网友也会和她一起讨论育儿的知识,像她这样一边记录,一边结交朋友,这让枯燥的孕期生活更加丰富多彩。

She expect their children to be peace comes,And she together to share the beauty of the world.now,Her child QQ space has hundreds of a message.A lot of pregnant net friend will also discuss with her parenting knowledge,Such as she side record,Side make friends,It makes a boring pregnancy life more rich and colorful.

  现象四:为孩子抢占游戏席位 Phenomenon four:For the children take seats in the game

  个体老板陈先生的孩子10岁。每天生意不忙时,陈先生就会上网玩游戏,十分痴迷。现在他已经用孩子的名字在多个网络游戏里注册了号,并开练游戏等级。

Individual boss Mr. Chen's child 10 years old.When not busy business every day,Mr. Chen will be on the Internet to play the game,Very crazy.Now he has used the name of the child in more than one network game registered number,Up to practice and game level.

  陈先生说:“现在孩子还小,等过几年长大了,这些网络号码会很值钱,陪着他玩总比孩子出去玩好。”以后他和孩子一起玩游戏时,也不会因为游戏账号等级太低,而无法进入同一个游戏界面。

Mr. Chen said:"Now that the children are still small,A few years grew up,These network number will be very valuable,Accompany him to play than children go out to play good."Later he and children play the game,Also won't because the game account level is too low,To enter the same game interface.

  但他也表示,一定会规定好上网时间,不能让孩子过分沉迷于网络。

But he also said,Provisions must be good time online,Can't let the child too much addicted to the Internet.



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