1月7日，考试结束后，来自山东的考生孟琦与父亲正在打包行李，准备离开已经租住了一年的小屋。不少高校的校园及周边的廉租房里，蜗居着众多“考研族",房租也随之水涨船高。本报记者王叔坤 摄

On January 7th,After the test,Students from shandong MengQi and father are packing,Leaving have to rent the house for a year.A lot of university campus and the surrounding of the housing,Humble abode with many"One's deceased father grind family",The rent has a rising tide lifts all boats.Our reporter WangShuKun perturbation

　　1月6日，2013年全国硕士研究生统一入学考试北京中国人民大学考点，特地从外地赶来陪考的家长在考场外等候考试结束。

On January 6,,In 2013 the national postgraduate entrance exam Beijing test people's university of China,Came from the field to PeiKao parents in the examination room waiting for the end of the exam.

　　本报记者 王叔坤 摄

Our reporter WangShuKun perturbation

　　48岁的安徽母亲徐女士站在北京零下温度的室外，虽然用围巾紧紧捂住了下半张脸，鼻头还是冻得通红，她说，在这样的天气里，在室外多站一分钟都是一种折磨。

And old anhui mother xu lady standing in Beijing negative temperature outdoor,Although the second half with the scarf tightly covered my face,Muzzle or red with cold,She said,In such weather,Outside stood more than a minute is a kind of torture.

　　1月6日下午，在中国人民大学研究生入学考试考场外，和徐女士这样，孩子在教室里考试，他们在考场外守候的父母有上百人。

In the afternoon on January 6th,In China people's university graduate entrance examination examination outside,And ms xu so,The child in the classroom test,They are waiting outside the examination room parents have hundreds of people.

　　今年，全国约有180万的考生踏进了研究生入学考试的考场，这意味着考研故事在中国180万个家庭上演，而有多少像徐女士这样“比孩子还紧张”的父母，没有明确的数字统计，相比考生来说，他们是被忽略的群体。2005年，中国考研人数首次突破百万，九年来，人数一路上扬，并在2013年达到新高。有人将考研称作人生的第二次高考。

This year,The national about 1.8 million candidates into the postgraduate entrance examination examination,This means that one's deceased father grind story in China on 1.8 million families,And how many such as ms xu"Than the child still nervous"parents,No clear statistics,Compared for the,They are neglected group.In 2005,,The number of Chinese one's deceased father grind for the first time in one million,For nine years,Number rise all the way,And in 2013 to record highs.Someone will one's deceased father grind called the second life college entrance examination.

　　考研越来越成为许多家庭孩子为数不多的上升通道。在很多家庭，和高考一样，考研已经不是考生一个人的战斗，而成为了全家上阵的战役。从孩子决定考研的那一刻起，对于一个有考研学生的家庭来说，意味着一个家庭重心的转移，从物质投入到精神付出，他们怀着“考研改变命运”的信念倾其所能，但在现实面前，这条多数家庭孩子的上升通道却并不如想象中那么顺畅。

One's deceased father grind has become a more and more many families children a few rising channel.In a lot of families,And the university entrance exam,One's deceased father grind is not candidates a person's fight,The family of the campaign.From child decided to one's deceased father grind the moment,For a one's deceased father grind students' families,Means that a family center of gravity of the transfer,From the material into the spirit to pay,They with"One's deceased father grind change destiny"Faith pour it can,But in front of the reality,This article most families children's rising channel is not as imagination in so smooth.

　　记者在今年的考研日，走进了那些考研家庭，了解了他们背后的故事。

Reporter in this year, one's deceased father grind,That one's deceased father grind into the family,Know the story behind them.

　　

“考研不是孩子一个人的事” "One's deceased father grind is not the child a man"

　　49岁的山东父亲孟庆臣是第二次来到儿子孟琦的出租屋，这间位于中国人民大学校园内的房间，不足8平方米，虽然屋里摆放着一张双人床，但孟庆臣却没有在屋里住过一晚上。1月4日，在儿子考研前一天，他来到了北京，“在考试期间帮儿子搞后勤服务”。由于担心扰乱儿子的生活习惯，他以每晚188元的价格找了附近的一家宾馆。

Shandong 49 years old father MengQingChen is the second son came to the MengQi let,This is located in China people's university campus room,Eight square metres shortage,Although the house put a double bed,But MengQingChen but not in the house for a night.On January 4,,In the day before the son of one's deceased father grind,He went to Beijing,"During exam time help son make logistics service".Because of fears that disturb son living habits,He to the price of 188 yuan per night for a nearby hotel.

　　考研那两天北京高校周边的宾馆几乎爆满，一对来自河北保定的夫妻告诉记者，房间至少得提前一个月订，由于预订太晚，他们住的是每晚上700多元的高价房。

One's deceased father grind the two days around Beijing college of hotel almost full,A pair of husband and wife from hebei baoding told reporters,The room at least one month in advance booking,Due to the booking late,They live is 700 yuan per night high room.

　　1月5日、6日，这些家长的生活与孟庆臣如出一辙：早上定时打电话叫孩子起床，送孩子上考场，提前半小时来考场候考，午饭后回宾馆，下午定时打电话，送考、候考，重复上午的程序。

On January 5,/6,The parents' life and MengQingChen be exactly the same:Morning time call the child to get out of bed,Send the child to the examination,Half an hour to examination pending further examination,Back to the hotel after lunch,In the afternoon time make a phone call,Send test/Pending further examination,Repeat the procedure in the morning.

　　这些父母所做的一切都是为了“给孩子搞好后勤”。小到一块橡皮的准备，大到每天的饮食安排，他们看起来比孩子都要细心紧张。

The parents did it for"Give children do a good job in logistics".To a small piece of rubber preparation,To arrange daily diet,They looks better than the children to careful nervous.

　　“孩子中考、高考都没有这么紧张过。”一位母亲向记者吐露了家有考生的心声。女儿本科就读于北京大学，因为个人爱好，跨专业考研，这么优秀的一位女儿也丝毫不能打消母亲心中的紧张和忧虑，“以前中考高考都有模拟，孩子考成啥样，心里有底。而且前面那些都是个铺垫，虽说少了哪一步都不行，但研究生学校和专业才是以后决定以后就业的关键。”

"The child tests/The university entrance exam is not so nervous over."A mother told reporters the home out of the heart.Daughter undergraduate studying in Beijing university,For personal interests,Cross major to one's deceased father grind,So good a daughter are not able to reassure mother heart nervous and worried,"Before the college entrance examination tests are simulated,The child exam into what kind,Heart bottom.And the front is a foreshadowing,Although less which step no,But the graduate school and professional after is the key to decide later obtain employment."

　　在这些父母眼中，他们已年过二十、大学毕业的孩子们跟当年高中毕业参加高考的孩子们没什么区别，都还只是“孩子”，而在记者眼中，他们与那些在高考考点外候考的父母们也没有什么区别。天气再冷，他们总会提前来到考点外，等候孩子考完散场，有的父母甚至在孩子进入考场后寸步不离等候，紧张和焦虑写在每一个人的脸上。他们在一起的话题，不是去年的录取比例，就是今年的招录人数。

In the eyes of the parents,They have been over twenty/University graduate with the children graduated from high school to college entrance examination children nothing to distinguish,Is just"children",In reporter eyes,They and those in the college entrance examination examination site outside pending further examination parents also does not have what differentiation.The weather to cold,They will advance to the test,Wait for the child take an examination of wost,Some parents even in children into the examination room after keep close to wait for,Tension and anxiety written in every one in the face.They together of the topic,Not last year admit proportion,Is this year's ZhaoLu number.

　　1月6日，北京师范大学里，一位来自内蒙古的父亲告诉记者，自打孩子决定考研，家里好像回到了孩子高三那年，考研不是孩子一个人的事，而成为全家人的生活重心。

On January 6,,Beijing normal university,A from Inner Mongolia's father told reporters,Since children decided to one's deceased father grind,Home like back to the child three that year,One's deceased father grind is not the child a man,To become the center of life.

　　“只要孩子上进，我们就支持”

"As long as the child progresses,We will support"

　　1月7日晚，考研结束后，孟庆臣帮儿子把行李收拾的整整齐齐，准备次日返乡。这对山东济宁的父子是第二次一起坐在这间儿子奋斗了半年的出租屋内。第一次是在7月7日，7月8日是孟琦在北京辅导班开课的日子，孟庆臣和儿子在一天看了几处房子，最后选定了这处最贵的，月租2200元。“也有七八百一个月的，但条件都比不上这里，贵是贵了点，但是花这点钱能给他创造个好环境，值。”孟庆臣这个选择的正确性毫不怀疑。

On January 7th night,After one's deceased father grind,MengQingChen help son leave your luggage up in apple-pie order,Ready to return the next day.The shandong jining of father and son is the second son sitting in the struggle for half a year in the article.The first was in the July 7,July 8 is MengQi class in Beijing the day of classes,MengQingChen and son in a day to see several house,Finally chose the place the most expensive,Rent is 2200 yuan."Also have 7800 a month,But conditions are not here,You are quite a bit,But spend this money can give him to create a good environment,value."The correctness of the MengQingChen the choice without doubt.

　　孟庆臣只是一名企业职工，儿子要考的是金融学硕士。这位49岁的父亲说起人民大学来，小到对中国人民大学食堂的饭菜，大到学校老师、儿子的专业都头头是道，他对CFA（注册金融分析师）和CPA（注册会计师）这些儿子报考专业中的术语，了如指掌。

MengQingChen just a company worker,Test the son is master of finance.The 49-year-old father about people's university,Small to the Chinese people's university canteen meals,The school teacher/Son's professional are clear and logical,His CFA(Registered financial analysts)And CPA(Certified public accountants)The son of enter oneself for an examination professional term,well.

　　孟庆臣是这样给记者解释的：“孩子考试，我们家长也都必须对这些有了解。”

MengQingChen is such to the reporters:"The child test,Our parents are also need to know these."

　　这在孟庆臣看来是应该的，经济投入同样不可避免。孟庆臣说，报培训班、租房、生活费，儿子半年的考研复习花了4万多元。但是，“只要孩子上进，我们就支持。”

This seems to be in MengQingChen should be,Economic investment also inevitable.MengQingChen said,Training for/Renting a house/living,Son half a year one's deceased father grind review spent more than 40000 yuan.but,"As long as the child progresses,We will support."

　　这也是记者在采访过程中，听到家长们最常说到的一句话。家有考生，每一个家庭为了孩子的前途，都是倾尽所能地投入。

This is also a reporter in the interview process,Hear parents most often said a word.Home has the,Every family for the child in the future,Is best can input.

　　在京城几所名校，记者遇到了不少来自“非著名”院校的考生和家长们。安徽滁州的徐女士谈及报考了人民大学的女儿时说，进人大是女儿的理想，从上大学起，考进入人大学习就不仅仅成了女儿的愿望，也成为了整个家庭的愿望。“女儿考了很多证，学习也蛮优秀，大学四年，她没有虚度，我们能提供啥支持，都提供了，为的就是有一天她能实现自己的理想，也替我们圆一个希望。”

In Beijing a few well-known colleges and universities,Reporter met many from"Not famous"College students and parents.Anhui chuzhou xu of lady talked about the people enter oneself for an examination of the university of said her daughter,Into the National People's Congress is the ideal daughter,From the university,Test the NPC learning is not only a daughter's wishes,Have become the whole family's wishes."Daughter got a lot of card,Studies also is pretty good,The university for four years,She didn't waste,We can provide what support,provides,Just one day she can achieve their ideal,For we round a hope."

　　除了硬件支持，托关系，找熟人，希望能在孩子进入面试后助孩子一臂之力，是许多家长未雨绸缪的打算，而这背后的心酸父母大多不让孩子知道。一位北京妈妈告诉记者：“我们只能拐弯抹角托关系，拉下脸来求人，就怕到时候孩子用得上，为了孩子，做父母该这么做。”很多父母因为自己没有门路帮得上孩子而心怀内疚。

In addition to hardware support,Joe relationship,Find acquaintances,The hope can be in children to enter the interview to help children a helping hand,Is that many parents plan to save for a rainy day,But behind this bitterness of most parents do not let the child know.One mother told reporters in Beijing:"We have to beat around the bush "relationship,Pull a long face to ask for help,They were afraid when children use,For the children,Do parents should do so."Many parents because you have no way to help children and heart guilty.

　　更多的父母虽然没有陪同孩子走进考场，但他们对孩子的支持却丝毫不少。中央民族大学考生张静告诉记者，如果不是家庭的支持，她也许都没有勇气踏进考场。这位湖南女孩说，自打决定考研，父母不仅在经济方面从不吝啬，报培训、买资料，一样没差，而且父母对自己的关怀比以前更加细致，妈妈曾经两次不远千里来北京给她加油打气。

More and more parents though not accompany children into the examination room,But they are a bit to the child's support many.The central university for nationalities candidates zhang jing told reporters,If not family support,She may not have the courage to step into the examination room.The hunan girl said,Since decided to one's deceased father grind,Parents not only in the economic aspect never stingy,Quote training/Buy material,Did not bad,And parents for their care more carefully than before,Mother had two miles to Beijing to cheer her.

　　“如果不是他们，可能我也放弃了，为了支持我考研，他们能做的都做了。”张静说。

"If it were not for their,May I give up,In order to support me one's deceased father grind,They can do."Zhang jing said.

　　考研改变命运？

One's deceased father grind change destiny?

　　“为什么要考研？”面对记者的提问，无论是考生还是家长，他们的回答大多雷同：为了更好的发展、更好的就业，归结起来一句话，在他们心中，考研能够改变他们目前并不满意的命运。

"Why should one's deceased father grind?"Facing journalists' questions,Both candidates or parents,Their answers are identical:In order to better development/Better employment,Sum up a word,In their hearts,One's deceased father grind can change the fate of their present are not satisfied.

　　孟琦高二模拟考试时，在全市1.6千万名考生中名列140多名，但高考却没上理想的学校，孟庆臣对此记忆犹新，他和儿子把考研视作孩子的第二次机会。

MengQi high simulation during the test,In the city of 16 million candidates in more than 140,But the university entrance exam but not the ideal school,This MengQingChen memory,He and his son to one's deceased father grind as the child's a second chance.

　　在孟庆臣的心中，只要孩子能考上人大金融学硕士，就业前景就会一片光亮。“不仅仅在北京能找个好工作，就算是去了外地，进银行也能受重用。”而以孩子目前的学历，想达到这一点却很困难。

In the heart of the MengQingChen,As long as the child to enter a master's finance,Employment prospects will be a piece of light."Not only in Beijing can find a good job,Even went to the field,Into the bank also can be reuse."But with the child the degree,Want to reach this point is very difficult.

　　这样的信念在本科院校“出身”较差和经济条件差的家庭身上体现得尤其明显。一位来自内蒙古的考生父亲向记者表示，如果以孩子目前的学历，即便是在家乡，也只能找个一个月一两千元的工作，而在他眼中，一旦孩子如愿考上北京名校，研究生毕业后，月薪上万不是梦。“我听说过很多研究生毕业以后一个月能挣好几万。”这位父亲说。

The belief in the universities and colleges of undergraduate course"born"Poor economic conditions and poor family, especially obvious reflected.One of the candidates from Inner Mongolia father told reporters,If the child the degree,Even in the home,Also can find a one month 12000 yuan work,And in his eyes,Once the children get passed the Beijing school,After graduate school,Tens of thousands of monthly salary is not a dream."I've heard a lot of graduate students after graduation a month can earn tens of thousands."The father said.

　　一位来自农村的考生告诉记者，以他目前的学历和专业，连养活自己都困难，而一旦考研成功，就有可能在毕业以后帮助家庭。

A from rural students told reporters,In his present record of formal schooling and professional,Even support himself all difficulties,And when one's deceased father grind successful,It could be in after graduation to help families.

　　根据麦可思对3899名2013届本科毕业生的调查显示，有超过三成的学生选择国内读研的第一理由都是“就业前景好”。

According to Michael thought of 3899 2013 university graduate survey,More than thirty percent of students choose domestic to go to graduate school of the first reason is"Employment prospect is good".

　　采访中记者发现，考研成为不少学生和家长都认可的一条上升之路。

Interview reporter discovery,One's deceased father grind become a lot of students and parents are approved a rising road.

　　然而，事实却并不乐观。根据教育部、国家发改委联合下发的《2012年全国研究生招生计划的通知》显示，到2009年，硕士生开始业率连续下降。2009年至2011年，连续3年硕士生的就业率甚至不及本科生。

however,The fact is not optimistic.According to the ministry of education/The national development and reform commission jointly issued the[In 2012 the national graduate student enrollment plan notice]display,By 2009,Master began to industry rate continuous decline.From 2009 to 2011,Three consecutive years of the master's employment and even less than undergraduates.

　　而我国的研究生招生规模却一路飙升，2012年全国共招收58.4万名研究生，与2007年的44.9万人相比，5年间研究生招生规模增长了30%，比2003年翻了一番。专家认为，如今研究生早已不再抢手，并不意味着十拿九稳的就业机会。根据媒体报道，前一段时间在哈尔滨新招聘的448名环卫工人中，甚至出现了7位研究生的身影。

And China's dimensions of graduate student recruit students has soared,In 2012 the recruited 584000 graduate students,And 2007 in 449000 compared with,Five years dimensions of graduate student recruit students increased by 30%,More than 2003 years has doubled.Experts say,Now the graduate student no longer popular,Does not mean that in the bag of employment opportunities.According to media reports,Some time ago in Harbin new recruitment of 448 dustbinman people,Appear even the seven graduate figure.

　　即便如此，接受记者采访的不少父母仍然坚信考研是改变命运的选择，“像我们这样普通家庭的孩子，除了考研这条路，想要改变自己的命运，还能走哪一条路呢？”这是一位母亲谈及此话题时留给记者的一句话。

Even so,A lot of reporters parents still clings to the belief that one's deceased father grind is to change the choice of fate,"As we are ordinary families children,In addition to one's deceased father grind the road,Want to change their own destiny,Still can which road to take it?"This is a mother talked about the topics for a reporter.