“我生君未生，君生我已老。我离君天涯，君隔我海角。”这首唐诗，可套用在东莞中学松山湖学校一名高中女老师与男学生之间的恋情。这段恋情因遭到学生家长的反对，女教师还因此丢了工作。

"I was born gentleman not born,Prince was born I have old.I was no more,Jun every I cape."This piece of the tang dynasty,A form of middle school in dongguan songshan lake school relationship between male students and female high-school teacher.The relationship because of opposition by the parents of students,Teacher has lost his job.

　　昨日，该校有关负责人证实了师生恋一事，称学校没开除女老师，只是把女老师“调离”学校，劝其回老家休息一学期。不过，以后该老师也将不再回学校任教了。

yesterday,The school officials confirmed that the relationships between teachers and students,Said the female teacher hadn't been fired from the school,Just put the female teacher"transferring"The school,To advise him back to rest for one semester.but,After the teacher will not be back to school.

　这段师生恋相差10岁 The relationships between teachers and students are ten years apart

　　新学期开学一周了，松山湖学校的一些老师发现担任英语科的老师卓铭(化名)没来上班。一名知情人介绍说，卓铭毕业于名牌高校的英语专业，两年前进入学校担任英语老师。之前，学校见其教学成绩不俗，想调她到一所协办高中任教，但她不肯前往。后来，她为该校的一名高二学生做家教，辅导学生补习英语知识。在补习过程中，学生与卓铭熟络起来，还擦出了爱情火花，发展起一段年纪相隔10年的感情。

The new semester began a week,Songshan lake school ZhuoMing some teachers found that as an English teacher(Not his real name)Didn't come to work.An insider said,ZhuoMing English major graduated from famous colleges and universities,Two years ago into the school as an English teacher.before,The school sees its good teaching results,Want to adjust her to a co-host high school teaching,But she is not willing to travel to.later,She is a grade 11 student tutor at the school,Tutoring students cram English knowledge.In the process of the tutorial,Students with ZhuoMing wellpoint,Also wipe out of the love spark,Develop a age interval of 10 years of feelings.

　　该知情人介绍说，由于学生经常不回家，两人的交往被家长发现了。家长向卓铭交涉，但两人交往依旧。家长忍无可忍，向学校反映了情况。最终，学校作出了“让教师离职”的决定。

This person said,Because students often don't go home,Two people contacts from being discovered by the parents.Parents to ZhuoMing representations,But two people still.Parents are the last straw,To reflect the situation to the school.In the end,The school has made a"Let the teachers"The decision of the.

　两情相悦老师错了吗 Two feelings mutually yue teacher wrong

　　一石激起千层浪，此事在小范围内引起了讨论：有人认为老师与学生的感情要理性地对待，最好能留有界限；有人认为，老师和学生都有选择的自由；甚至有人认为，师生两情相悦，学校“调离”老师的行为是否有些过激？

A stone up,It caused a discussion on a small scale:Some people think that teachers and students to rationally treat feelings,It is best to leave;Some people think that,Teachers and students have freedom of choice;Even some people think that,Teachers and students mutually two feelings yue,The school"transferring"The teacher's behavior whether some extremist?

　　一名不愿具名的教育人士说，在中学时代，学生处于青春发育期，对有较为成熟有魅力的老师产生好感，是再正常不过的事情，而老师则要理性地控制自己的感情，明白炽热的感情之外还有一个“教师”的身份。他建议说，家庭和学校要对学生采取教育的手段，让其认识到要为自身的行为负责任，而女教师也已是成年人了，需要对自己的行为负责。

A education who declined to be named said,In high school,Students in puberty,To have a mature charm of the teacher,It's normal thing,While the teacher is to rationally control his feelings,Understand that there is also a hot feeling"The teacher"The identity of the.He suggested that,Family and school should adopt the means of education for students,To realize that you should be responsible for own behavior,The teacher is already adults, too,Need to be responsible for their actions.

　记者手记 Reporter's note

　　校园师生恋是否有悖伦理 Campus love between teachers and students is contrary to ethics

　　在美国，老师和学生谈恋爱有违校规。查阅资料不难发现，几乎所有的美国大学教师和工作人员手册里都有这样一条规定：严禁教师去“招惹”学生，或者更明白地规定不准和学生有任何的浪漫或两性关系。大学已是如此，更别说是高中阶段了。

In the United States,Teachers and students to fall in love against school rules.Access to information is not hard to find,Almost all of American university faculty and staff handbook has such a provision:It is forbidden to teachers to"inviting"students,Or, more explicitly stipulates that students are not allowed to and any romantic or sexual relationship.University is such,Let alone the high school stage.

　　早在2年前，我国台湾也发布了“校园性侵害或性骚扰事件防治准则”，要求大专、中小学在新修订教师聘约时，明令禁止“师生恋”，违反聘约的可能受到停聘或解聘等处分。

As early as 2 years ago,Taiwan also issued in our country"Campus sexual assault or sexual harassment prevention guidelines",Requires college/Primary and secondary schools in the new revision of the teacher employment contract,banned"The relationships between teachers and students",Breach of contract under suspension or dismissal of the disciplinary action.

　　其实，老师是一种特定的职业，与学生发生感情了，则逾越了职业伦理。况且，师生之间是一种不对等关系，是一种教育与被教育的关系，教师的话语权往往大于学生，可能给学校的秩序、教学带来负面的影响。

In fact,Teacher is a specific profession,The relationship with the students,Beyond the work ethic.Besides,,Is a kind of unequal relationship between teachers and students,Is a kind of education and the education relations,The teacher's voice often greater than the students,May give the school order/Had a negative impact on teaching.

　　笔者认为，若有勇气执起教鞭，就应为人师表。若为真爱，学生可在完成学业后再去续写。(记者/吴少敏)

The author thinks that,If you have the courage to hold up the pointer,It should be a teacher by worthy example.If it is true love,Students can go to after completing their studies in written.(The reporter/Wu Shaomin)