新华网南宁2月14日电（记者王军伟 刘晓莉）“离家的脚步越来越近，心里不由得一阵怅然。父母的衰老和孤独，让远行的脚步无法义无反顾。”马丽在微博中写道。

Xinhuanet nanning February 14 dec(Reporter WangJunWei LiuXiaoLi)"The steps of home more and more close,The heart can't help a disappointed.Parents' old and lonely,Let those steps can't proceed without hesitation."Mary wrote in micro bo.

　　13日，春节长假即将结束，马丽准备从家乡陕西返回外省工作地。一大早爸爸妈妈就起床帮忙收拾东西，走到门口，妈妈远远地跑过来拥抱，还没说话就泣不成声。马丽不敢再回头，强忍着眼泪上了车。

13,The Spring Festival holiday is coming to an end,Mary from home to return to work in shaanxi provincial.Get up early in the morning mom and dad will help pick up things,Went to the door,Mother far run to come over to embrace,Haven't talk was choked with sobs.Mary can't back,Brimming with tears on the car.

　　马丽是当下中国许多离家游子的一个缩影。春节前，他们不畏劳累囧途，踏入返乡大军；7天假期即将结束，他们又得告别父母，重新踏上征途。这独特的“返乡——离乡”模式构成了中国式大迁徙，其背后蕴含着“中国式孝心”的拼搏与无奈。

Mary is the home of many of China's representation of a miniature.Before the Spring Festival,They tired not dealing way,Step into the army;Seven days holiday is coming to an end,They have to say goodbye to my parents,To set foot on the journey.This unique"Home - leaving the home"Models make up the Chinese great migration,Behind it contains"Chinese filial piety"Of struggle and helpless.

　　30岁的陈涛在兰州一所大学任教。他从一个小山村走出，在北京读完研究生后又前往美国做访问学者，多年的漂泊生活让他心里极度疲惫。一边是日夜追寻的梦想，一边是难以割舍的亲情。

30 years old Chen tao in lanzhou university teaching.He is from a small mountain village out of,In Beijing after reading graduate students in the United States and a scholar,Years of drift life let his heart was very tired.On one side is the dream for day and night,One side is difficult to give up in the family.

　　“这些年最放不下的，还是家。大年初四，舍不得爸妈，但还是‘离家出走’，不是在追梦的路上，而是疲惫的灵魂已经流浪的越来越远了。”陈涛在自己微信中写道。

"Most of these can not let go,East or west, home is.Having reunion dinner,Loathe to give up my parents,but‘Away from home’,Not in the way of following my dreams,But tired soul has been wandering more and more far."Chen tao in their own micro letter says.

　　改革开放30多年来，随着城市化进程加快，越来越多年轻人离开家乡成为“都市人”，但是他们的父母大多仍坚守在“乡土中国”。每到春节，这种“都市”儿女和“乡土”父母的重逢造成了独特的“中国式孝心”：在离别中守望亲情。

More than 30 years of reform and opening up,With the urbanization,More and more young people leave their hometown and become"urbanite",But their parents are mostly hold in"Rural China".Every Spring Festival,this"urban"Children and"local"Parents' reunion caused the unique"Chinese filial piety":In the absence of family watch.

　　中国有句古话说“父母在，不远游”，许多都市男女常常引用这句话表达对父母的愧疚之情。家在河南的陆伟，大学毕业后在广西南宁工作，由于种种原因他今年春节没能回家。

There's an old Chinese saying said"Parents in,Don't make the",Many urban men and women often cited the words to express the feeling of guilt on their parents.Home in henan LiuWei,After graduation from the university in guangxi nanning work,Because of various reason he didn't go home this Spring Festival.

　　“外婆去年底刚刚去世，我没能见到她最后一面。除夕夜，我给老婆讲儿童时代的过年经历，讲到父母每次大年初二到外婆家的情景，不禁泪流满面。”陆伟说。

"Grandmother has just died late last year,I can't see her last one.On New Year's eve,I give wife speak childhood experience of Chinese New Year,Parents about each annual 2 to my grandma's situation,Tears can't help."LiuWei said.

　　陆伟告诉记者，“80后”实际上是漂泊的一代。“初中和高中都住校，大学4年在外省，毕业后独自在异乡打拼。算下来，自从12岁读初一开始，我们就很少有时间陪伴父母了。”

LiuWei told reporters,"After 80"Is actually a generation of drift."Junior high school and senior high school are in residence,University four years in the provinces,After the graduation alone in foreign land fight.Count down,Since 12 years old start to read first,We have less time with parents."

　　有这种感触的人并不少，最近一篇微博引起网友共鸣。这篇微博说：“假如你父母60岁，中国人均寿命72岁。如果你父母能活到80岁，你还能陪他们20年。如果你每年回家一次，每次陪父母6天，每天陪父母11小时，每年你能陪他们66小时。20年×66小时／年＝1320小时，1320小时／24小时／天＝55天！请珍惜和父母的每一天。”

Have this kind of feeling and a lot of,Recently a micro bo cause net friend resonance.This article micro bo said:"If your parents sixty years old,China's per capita life 72 years old.If your parents can live to be 80 years old,You can also accompany them twenty years.If you go home once a year,Every time with parents and 6 days,With their parents every day 11 hours,Annually you can accompany them 66 hours.Twenty years x 66 hours per year = 1320 hours,1320 hours / 24 hours/day = 55 days!Please cherish and parents every day."

　　“也许正是这种拼搏和对理想的追寻，构成了中国社会向上的动力，无法坚守的亲情和陪伴，可能是社会发展必须付出的代价。和古人相比，‘陪伴’二字更适合诠释春节对我们这代人的意义。”陆伟说。

"Maybe it is the struggle and the pursuit of ideal,Of Chinese social upward power,Can't stand of affection and company,May is the social development must pay a price.And compared the,‘with’The second word is more suitable for interpretation of the Spring Festival, we the meaning of this generation."LiuWei said.