于丹认为，做什么事情无论成功与否。主要在于有什么样的心。有时一个念头就可以决定你的一切。谁都会有这样的经验：做一件事，如果你抱定非做成不可的决心，在做的过程中就会竭尽全力、动用你的一切力量，不怕困难，坚持到底，结果多半都会成功；如果一开始心里就是动摇的，可做可不做，或者认定做不成，做的过程中就会缺乏劲头，并容易懈气，容易半途而废，多半事情就做不成。

Yu Dan think,What to do the matter, regardless of the success or not.Mainly lies in what kind of heart.Sometimes a thought can be decided to you all.Who will have this kind of experience:Do one thing,If you not conduct made not determination,In the process of doing will try our best to/Use all your strength,Does not fear the difficulty,Stick it out,The results will be most successful;If at first the heart is moved,But do not do,Or can't do that,Do process will lack of strength,And easy to slacken one's efforts,Easy to give up halfway,Most things do not.

　　要培养孩子有相濡以沫的精神。孩子在人群中成长是更好的环境。培养他们的相容性。因为这样可以培养孩子的创造性的快乐在玩中就快乐了。还有是依赖性的快乐，但是，你有可能买了你喜欢的奢侈品你是高兴好多。但是，你所有的快乐都是依赖的；你就会知道你一定会在哪一天会被剥夺掉这些快乐。那么你怎么才能让自己有一个最高境界的快乐呢？那就只有自己创造性的快乐。

To cultivate children have the same spirit.Children in the crowd growth is better environment.Cultivate their compatibility.Because it can cultivate children's creative happy at play in happy.And is the joy of dependence,but,You may buy your favorite luxury you are glad to many.but,All of your happiness is dependent;You will know where you will one day will be deprived of off these happy.So how can you let oneself have a highest level of happiness?That is only your own creative happy.

　　并且要让我们的孩子多和小朋友们在一起玩耍，在游戏中知道什么是遵守规则！彼此人和人要多一些交流，因为现在的物质交流是越来越多了。对孩子其实是没有什么好处的。我们在教育孩子的过程中，不要给我们的社会和我们的家庭留什么遗憾。

And let our children and the children played together,In the game know what is abide by rules!Each other people to more exchanges,Because the material exchange is more and more.For children is actually does not have what good.We in the education of children in the process,Don't give our society and our family leave any regret.