家庭教育输出的终端产品，是“态度”。我女儿4岁时，在手工课上做了一个花篮。有一天她“哐当”一声把花篮摔了，花篮的一个角摔出了一个三角口子，她“哇”地哭了。我说：“我们试试，看看能不能让花篮比没摔破时更漂亮！ ”我们又是剪又是贴，她还用彩笔画上颜色，最后，我们做出来一个非常漂亮的花篮。她和我说，“妈妈我懂了，哭是没用的。”我听了很欣慰。让我郁闷的是，后来家里每逢打坏什么东西，她都特别高兴，说：“我们试试，看能不能让它比没坏的时候更好看！ ”

Family education output terminal products,is"attitude".My daughter at the age of 4,In manual training on a flower basket.One day she"KuangDang"1 the flower basket fell,An Angle basket fell out of a triangle cut,she"wow"To cry.I said:"We try,See if you can let flower basket than didn't drop more beautiful! "We are cut and paste,She still use color painting,finally,We make to a very beautiful flower basket.She and I said,"Mother I understand,Crying is useless."I have listened to very gratified.Let me depressed is,Then home every batter what things,She is very happy,said:"We try,See if you can make it better than no bad look better! "

　　当然，不是所有的东西都能再做成比它没坏的时候更好，我们的底线只能是不让它更坏。这是一种生命的修复能力。一个人一辈子会遇上什么事情，我们无法左右，但是修复生命的能力，却在我们自己的掌握之中。

Of course,Not all things can make more than it didn't bad when better,Our bottom line is not only to make it worse.This is a kind of life the repair ability.A person lifetime will meet what things,We can't control,But repair ability of life,But in our own hands.

　　我们做父母，要培养孩子掌握自我修复的能力，要传递给孩子一种态度，让他们明白该怎样去面对挑战。如果你告诉孩子：“我会把你呵护得好好的，你这一辈子都不会打破花篮。 ”这就是谎言了。孩子不仅会打破花篮，还会打破他们自己，会撞得头破血流。这时候就要看他们有没有一种能力，像修复花篮一样把自己修复得更好，这种能力，我觉得在4岁时告诉他们，并不算太早。

We do parents,To cultivate children master the ability to repair itself,Want to pass on to their children and an attitude,Let them know how to face the challenge.If you tell kids:"I'll put you care well,You'll never break flower basket. "This is a lie.Children will not only break flower basket,Will break their own,Will bump be driven to the wall.This time is about to see they have a kind of ability,Like to repair his basket repair better,The ability,I think at age 4 tell them,Isn't too early.