传统中国人接受的是一种农耕文明的土地教育。孩子春天撒着欢儿地玩耍，夏天在河沟里游泳，秋天掰玉米、摘土豆回来烤了吃，冬天换上新棉袄放鞭炮、贴春联、过大年。四季的循环，在农耕文明里清晰展现。因为崇尚多子多福，每家每户都是大的拉扯着小的。一个馒头热气腾腾地出锅时，可能要掰成四块，每个孩子吃一块。这就叫分享。

Traditional Chinese people accept is a kind of farming civilization land education.Children with spring and a son to play,Summer in swimming in the river valley,Autumn to break off the corn/Pick potatoes back roast and eat,Winter change into new wadded jacket set off firecrackers/Put up Spring Festival couplets/Over annual.The cycle of the seasons,In the farming civilization clearly show.For many children advocate blessing,Every family is great pull of the small.A steamed bread with a bang out of the pot,May have to break into four pieces,Each child to eat a piece of.This is called share.

　　我们现在的孩子，远离了“分享”这个词。家里的水果，都是爷爷奶奶剥好了、切成块、用叉子喂到孩子小嘴里，说：“多吃两块，你还得练琴去呢！ ”从一人捧着一块馒头在阳光下玩耍，到现在的锦衣玉食、叉子叉在水果上送到嘴边，我们究竟是进步了还是倒退了？

We are children,Away from"share"The word.Home fruit,Grandma and grandpa are off well/Cut into pieces/Use a fork to feed the children small mouth,said:"Eat two pieces of,You still have to go to practice! "From a man holding a piece of steamed bread, playing in the sun,To the present extravagant life/A fork in fruit on to her lips,We actually is a progress or fall back?

　　进步有它的社会标准，但进步也有它的心灵标准。有时候我们只欣喜于得到的东西，却忽略了付出的是什么。今天，我们可能得到的是更多的知识，但付出的却往往是一个孩子快乐的能力。

Progress has its social standard,But progress has its heart standard.Sometimes we just delighted to get things,But ignore what you give is what.today,We may get more knowledge,But pay but is often a child happy ability.

　　拿我自己和我的孩子来说，我们童年的游戏方式就有着天壤之别。我小时候是上世纪70年代，在北京的胡同里，女孩流行玩砍沙包和跳皮筋。橡皮筋一角钱可以买一大把，然后我们一根一根地把它们套起来，连成一根皮筋，从脚踝到腿弯到大腿到腰间到肩膀，可以一直跳到“大举”。那时穷有穷的玩法，而且我们的玩法很公平，哪一方输了绝对不允许耍赖，谁跳坏了谁就得下来撑皮筋。这是一种游戏规则。

Take myself and my for children,Our childhood game mode has a world of difference.I was in the 1970 s,In Beijing's hutongs,The girl popular play cut earthbags and rubber band skipping.Rubber band corner money can buy a bunch,Then we an one root ground put them set up,Connect a piece of elastic,From the ankle to the leg bent to the thigh to the waist to his shoulders,Could have been to"massive".Then poor have poor play,And we play very fair,Which side lost absolute don't allow play to depend on,Who jump out who have to down elastic support.This is a kind of the rules of the game.

　　现在，我们小区里几乎每个孩子都有一个滑板车、一副轮滑鞋，孩子们滑到面前，彼此打个招呼又散开了。他们拥有的空间越来越大，速度越来越快，但是他们已经失去了一个群体游戏的环境。滑板车和轮滑鞋给了他们一种自由奔跑的速度，却缺少了大家都必须服从的规则。为什么现在的小孩子长大了容易耍赖？因为他们小时候处于规则之中的时间越来越少了。我们跳皮筋、砍沙包都是和同龄人一起，你要是耍赖，人家就不和你一块儿玩了。所以我们会自己解决规则认同的问题。再来看我们的孩子，他们也是好孩子、乖孩子，但他们在玩的时候就缺失了这种规则的协商和认同。当所有的孩子都踩着滑板车在速度中独往独来时，他们怎么能懂得牺牲和谦让？

now,In our village almost every child has a scooter/A pair of LunHuaXie,The children slide to the front,Say hello to each other and cleared away.They have space is more and more big,faster,But they've lost a group game environment.Scooter and LunHuaXie gave them a free running speed,But missing everyone must obey the rules.Why now children grew up easy to play to depend on?Because of their childhood in rules of time is less and less.We rubber band skipping/Cut earthbags are together with the contemporary,If you play to depend on,They will play together with you.So we can solve the problem of identity rules.Come and see us again children,They are good children/Lovely children,But they're playing time is missing the rules of the consultation and identity.When all the children are stepping on a scooter in speed of when completely independent,How can they know sacrifice and obey?